Pregnant after a Loss

Hello! (Intro)

Hey everyone! Just wanted to take a moment to introduce myself. I am very late to the game, but I am currently 30 weeks pregnant with an adorable baby girl. Since we are starting to wind down in this pregnancy, I figured I will need a lot more support since my nightmares keep getting worse. Our beautiful baby girl Addison was born sleeping on January 10, 2015. We were 37 weeks 6 days when we lost her. The scariest thing was that she had a normal heartbeat and regular movement 2 days prior. I know our beautiful angel is watching over our tiny miracle but the doubt, fear and shame is still there as I assume it will be for a while. Hope that speaking with some of you courageous women will help get us through this scary and amazing time!

Re: Hello! (Intro)

  • I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine..
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, but congratulations on your pregnancy!!
    BFP 2/11/15 (EDD 10/13/15). MMC 3/30/15 D&C 4/3/15 "We will always love you"
    DD1 - BFP 7/23/15 (EDD 3/31/16).  "We believe in you rainbow" DOB 4/2/16
    DD2 - BFP 2/9/18 (EDD 10/19/18).  "Grow baby grow!" DOB 10/24/18
    BFP 11/16/20 (EDD 7/31/21).  "Round 3 FIGHT!"
  • Im so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I'm 4w3d and seeing a healthy 8 week scan would make me breathe a huge sigh of relief. (I've had two losses that never reached that milestone.) I can't imagine how hard it would be to worry the whole way through. I'm sure 10 weeks from now you will get a happy ending. And I'll be over the moon if I'm still on this board to see it! :)
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)

  • I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the feelings you must be experiencing right now.
  • I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Congratulations and we're here for you!

  • Sorry for your loss. I can't imagine being so close to the end. Congrats on your pregnancy!
  • I'm so very sorry for the loss of your daughter.  What a difficult thing to go through- my heart breaks just thinking of the pain it must've caused you. 
    Wishing you the very best in the final stretch of this pregnancy.  I know it will be difficult to keep your chin up at times, but don't despair- feeling scared won't hurt you or your baby, and I can't imagine how you would feel otherwise!  There are many women on this board who've been through similar situations.  Reach out when you're freaking out.
    1st Pregnancy: EDD 12/31/15; Diagnosed Turner's with terminal cystic hygroma 13wks; induced at 14wks, +3 d+c's.
    2nd Pregnancy: BFP 10/8/15; EDD 6/21/16

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