Ladies - I hope some of you can relate. So I am on maternity leave for 12 weeks and my husband went back to work basically instantly. We are struggling with baby falling back asleep after his midnight or so feeding. Currently I am pumping bc he doesn't have the latch down pat just yet so we nurse in the mornings only. Therefore I have pumped bottles and also we are doing 1 formula bottle. It's the weekend, and my husband is still sound asleep - he fed the baby just by chance but once baby lays down and then cries he gets very agitated and says to just let the baby lay on his chest. First off, I don't want the baby in the bed or getting used to that bc my husband is a very deep sleeper and I know he would fall asleep plus baby does great with his crib for naps and falling asleep around 9. How can I get my husband involved but not make him feel like I'm controlling the situation and also help him to understand that even though I'm not at work during the day, I will be, and I would appreciate some help and also need baby to be soothed by either one of us. It's 3am and I've yet to go to sleep this evening... Hopefully someone can relate!