I am finally 100 percent at peace with my one and done decision. I had HG with my first and a scary delivery, and was happy with my decision to be "one and done". After 2 1/2 years though, my husband and I decided to "just see what happens"
Well, what happened was an early miscarriage followed the very next month by a new pregnancy (shocked it happened so fast!) this pregnancy resulted in a blighted ovum (so scared to have the procedure this Friday!) and so we have made the choice that we are 100 percent committed to being one and done. I have been so I'll with both my 2nd and 3rd pregnancies, only to have them end. But, at the end of the day we are so happy to be the lucky parents of our sweet girl, and are relieved to make our final decision of one and done.
Anyway, I am hoping to be an active member of this community, and maybe get some great ideas on how to handle the "when are you having another one/you should try again" comments.