Ladies I had the most frustrating thing happen last night. My mom and step mom are throwing me a baby shower, which I know nothing about. Apparently the invites went out because I got a nasty comment from my Dad's best friends wife. She told me all the reasons she will not attend my shower. In a nutshell she said the way I thanked her husband at our wedding was not appropriate. He officiated the wedding. I didn't give him a gift and I didn't put him in the program (which I honestly didn't even know). I ordered them off etsy and just filled in the info where promoted. She insulted me for including dead people.... My grandparents and aunt and uncle.. But not him. She said I cared more about dead people. AND she said that her husband was more emotionally invested in my ceremony than I was. She said she thinks I need to be more grateful for what others do for me me and she just is so resentful of me that she can't be happy for me.
Who the f does that? A 50 something year old woman wrote this to me in Facebook a year after my wedding. Perhaps I messed up and didn't thank him appropriately, why would you wait a year to call me out and say nasty things. Don't come to my shower... I am not offended. But I am offended that you felt the need to belittle me in the process.
Sorry for my long rant. I have just been so upset that I needed to get it off my chest.