Hi all!
Not TTC related, but I'm going to a wedding with a Catholic gap on Saturday. The ceremony is at 3:00 at a church,the reception is at 7:00 and the invitation states "Black Tie Optional". I've never been to a wedding with a gap before, would it be considered odd to change my outfit & makeup between the ceremony and reception? We're going to my MIL's house not too far from the ceremony after so its totally feasible. I'm just not sure what the norm is and I'm going to Rent The Runway today to pick something (or two) out.
FWIW I'm a bit of a peacock so if I get a chance to wear a pretty sparkly dress then I am going to wear the pretty sparkly dress.
Re: NBR-Catholic gap
Married: July 2015
BFP: 5/20/16 | EDD: 1/28/17 | Twin boys born 1/16/17
Married: July 2015
BFP: 5/20/16 | EDD: 1/28/17 | Twin boys born 1/16/17
Baby Boy #1 born 1/9/17
Baby Boy #2 EDD 11/4/18
Thanks ladies! It's for a ritzy Long Island couple and if ever there was an opportunity for overkill glamour and big hair, this is it! But maybe not at 3:00 in the afternoon, at a church. So I appreciate knowing its not crazy to wear two outfits that day. On the bright side if I don't turn a BFP Saturday morning I can drown my sorrows in Champagne someone else is paying for!
Rent The Runway is only a few blocks from my office and are my go-to for basically everything (I chair a charity that does a lot of events, so its perfect). They have dresses at all price ranges @gonetothesea - you should check them out for whatever your next party is!
@MNturnsVA - Rent The Runway is a service that rents out designer dresses/jewelry/bags for 3-8 days at a fraction of their retail cost. I love it! It solves the issue of not wanting to wear the same thing to every event but not being able to afford new dresses every time. Plus I'm vain and if I know I'll be photographed in something I don't want to wear it too often.
I was in a wedding with a 3-4 hour gap. I was starving as we took pictures for hours. My family, who were guests, went to eat at a Friendlys cause it was just too long. Compared to what they did, I think you changing is totally fine haha
FWIW, I'm Catholic, and I still think long gaps are inconsiderate to guests. I fought tooth and nail to get the church to allow us to start our ceremony (not a full mass) at 3:30. The reception was 15 minutes away, and the cocktail hour started at 5:00. We offered a hospitality suite with drinks and snacks, so people had somewhere to go during the gap if they wanted.
Men can be a bit more confusing. Growing up for both DH and I, wedding ceremonies were considered formal events and the men wore suits and ties. The last two weddings we're been to we looked around the church and couldn't believe how casually most of the med were dressed. Like kakhis and polos in some cases. In both cases DH was one of the o KU ones wearing a full suit. He doesn't care though. To is its just respectful to dress nicely for someone's big day!