Keep getting BFNs but i have so many pregnancy symptoms its crazy!?

EmilyVictoria28

I had ovulation cramping on day 6-7 of my cycle (16-17 August), this was just after my period. From then we have been ttc for pretty much 2 weeks straight and have not stopped! I had mild cramping for a week & tender uterus during sex (i had an ultrasound everything was clear)...this pain occurred about 4-5 days after first trying to conceive. Then the cramping stopped after a week and i felt nauseous at different times of the day and especially during/after sex. I had a huge amount of white thick CM come out all over my undies i freaked out there was heaps! I feel exhausted and have headaches everyday that are sometimes so bad i just need to go to sleep. I pee every minute at night and im busting but only a little bit comes out and i can't sleep because of it. I feel bloated constantly. My nipples are erect more than usual. I have loss of appetite and sometimes big food cravings. I feel more thirsty than usual. I am constipated to! It is now the 31st of August and i did a pregnancy test but it was negative. My period is due on 8th of September. Do you think i just tested too early? My tummy feels so full and bloated i feel horrible i feel pregnant and pudgy and fat!! I'm so disappointed to not get a BFP as my symptoms have been so strong lately i feel so different. Should i try another test...if so when should i try it?

letyourheartbeyourguide

EmilyVictoria28 said:

I had ovulation cramping on day 6-7 of my cycle (16-17 August), this was just after my period. From then we have been ttc for pretty much 2 weeks straight and have not stopped! I had mild cramping for a week & tender uterus during sex (i had an ultrasound everything was clear)...this pain occurred about 4-5 days after first trying to conceive. Then the cramping stopped after a week and i felt nauseous at different times of the day and especially during/after sex. I had a huge amount of white thick CM come out all over my undies i freaked out there was heaps! I feel exhausted and have headaches everyday that are sometimes so bad i just need to go to sleep. I pee every minute at night and im busting but only a little bit comes out and i can't sleep because of it. I feel bloated constantly. My nipples are erect more than usual. I have loss of appetite and sometimes big food cravings. I feel more thirsty than usual. I am constipated to! It is now the 31st of August and i did a pregnancy test but it was negative. My period is due on 8th of September. Do you think i just tested too early? My tummy feels so full and bloated i feel horrible i feel pregnant and pudgy and fat!! I'm so disappointed to not get a BFP as my symptoms have been so strong lately i feel so different. Should i try another test...if so when should i try it?

No.

calico34

 

meggyme

You guys have had a rough weekend, so I'll take this one.

If your HPT was negative it means you are not pregnant at this time and certainly don't have enough pregnancy hormones to cause all your symptoms. Keep testing until you get AF or BFP.

Lulucooks

Take as many tests as you like, but pregnancy symptoms mean nothing without a positive. Also your nipples being erect means you are likely cold, not pregnant.

Alyssmah

Lurk. Lurk. Lurk

EmilyVictoria28

Thanks for the women who have helped...i don't appreciate the rudeness of the other women though all i wanted was some discussion about how other women felt before they got a BFP to see if i could relate.

Linsbins

Linsbins

EmilyVictoria28 said:

Thanks for the women who have helped...i don't appreciate the rudeness of the other women though all i wanted was some discussion about how other women felt before they got a BFP to see if i could relate.

I don't appreciate YOU coming here and posting without lurking.

Lulucooks

EmilyVictoria28 said:

Thanks for the women who have helped...i don't appreciate the rudeness of the other women though all i wanted was some discussion about how other women felt before they got a BFP to see if i could relate.

Qfp

Not everyone here has been pregnant
No one was rude
I've had erect nipples many times in my life
All the other symptoms too.

PrimRoseMama

EmilyVictoria28 said:

Thanks for the women who have helped...i don't appreciate the rudeness of the other women though all i wanted was some discussion about how other women felt before they got a BFP to see if i could relate.

Other people don't matter...

No one else has your body. I can tell you the cycles it was pregnant I felt fine. I would normally get all you describe as PMS. When I felt like a million bucks is when I knew. So, again, my experience means nothing for you.

KyCat

EmilyVictoria28 said:

I had ovulation cramping on day 6-7 of my cycle (16-17 August), this was just after my period. From then we have been ttc for pretty much 2 weeks straight and have not stopped! I had mild cramping for a week & tender uterus during sex (i had an ultrasound everything was clear)...this pain occurred about 4-5 days after first trying to conceive. Then the cramping stopped after a week and i felt nauseous at different times of the day and especially during/after sex. I had a huge amount of white thick CM come out all over my undies i freaked out there was heaps! I feel exhausted and have headaches everyday that are sometimes so bad i just need to go to sleep. I pee every minute at night and im busting but only a little bit comes out and i can't sleep because of it. I feel bloated constantly. My nipples are erect more than usual. I have loss of appetite and sometimes big food cravings. I feel more thirsty than usual. I am constipated to! It is now the 31st of August and i did a pregnancy test but it was negative. My period is due on 8th of September. Do you think i just tested too early? My tummy feels so full and bloated i feel horrible i feel pregnant and pudgy and fat!! I'm so disappointed to not get a BFP as my symptoms have been so strong lately i feel so different. Should i try another test...if so when should i try it?

You've been having sex continuously for 2 weeks? How did you even type this?

GridIronGrrl34

Linsbins

Fwiw OP, I totes felt KU at the end of my last vacation. Throwing up, nips feeling sensitive, bloating, etc. clearly I wasn't. Oh well. Live, learn, and lurk.

gravcass

EmilyVictoria28 said:

Thanks for the women who have helped...i don't appreciate the rudeness of the other women though all i wanted was some discussion about how other women felt before they got a BFP to see if i could relate.

We ARE here to help. And telling you that you are totes knocked up because you are symptom spotting is NOT helping you. It's setting you up for disappointment.
Lurk, read the TOUs. The fact that you asked this questions means you didn't read them which is very rude on your end.

If we responded to every thread like this the only discussion on these boards would be symptom spotting threads, which believe it or not gets very repetitive and boring for those trying months and yes even YEARS to get pregnant. It literally makes us want to rip our hair out.

*edit grammar*

jsassy

conniemeri said:

Praying for you to get your positive test!!!!!

dsmith211

WSU2015

conniemeri said:

Praying for you to get your positive test!!!!!

Of course you are

EmilyVictoria28

Thanks conniemeri!

dsmith211

WSU2015 said:

conniemeri said:

Praying for you to get your positive test!!!!!

Of course you are

We can't forget. Positivity is key.

indulgentgypsy

blackgirlmagic

If you had "ovulation cramping" on the 16 and 17 then that means that you would be getting your period any day now Or be able to turn a test. The only way to determine ovulation is by temping and OPK. Therefore you clearly were not having "ovulation cramping" like you think. You are mostly bloated and gasy from something you ate. You would be able to turn a test or get ready for your period to come. I do hope you get a BFP soon but you clearly haven't learned about your body.

And the women on here have a right to have the reactions that they have. If you lurked any, even just on the first page, you would have seen the madness going on this weekend and you would have never asked this question.

EmilyVictoria28

alright i get it asking a question is a crime..im deleting my account im sick of this negative bull crap good bye!

Lulucooks

EmilyVictoria28 said:

alright i get it asking a question is a crime..im deleting my account im sick of this negative bull crap good bye!

:-h

Alyssmah

If you had read and followed the TOU, as we all have and do, then you would've known that asking this specific question is a big no-no here. Also it gets asked frequently and we're tired of the repetitiveness. There's a ton of knowledge on these boards that will help you on your journey to get KU. But you have to respect the rules.

indulgentgypsy

lovearoo

Lmao oh goodie a GBCB post!

WorkingOnMyNightCheese

GBCB!

WinchestertoPittsburgh

Well that escalated quickly <:-P

WorkingOnMyNightCheese

WinchestertoPittsburgh said:

Well that escalated quickly <:-P

Just for clarification I'm not GBCBing

R0824H

MEA0320

Alyssmah said:

If you had read and followed the TOU, as we all have and do, then you would've known that asking this specific question is a big no-no here. Also it gets asked frequently and we're tired of the repetitiveness. There's a ton of knowledge on these boards that will help you on your journey to get KU. But you have to respect the rules.

^^this. All of this^^

In the future if you plan to join a community board be sure to lurk, read any rules about the board, and get to know the tone/feel before diving in.

yogahh

Waaaayyyyy too early on a Monday morning for this ish. Why is this still open?

WinchestertoPittsburgh

katetastrophem said:

WinchestertoPittsburgh said:

Well that escalated quickly <:-P

Just for clarification I'm not GBCBing

Haha, phew!! Although, that gif is the way to go.

FloridaStanley

I love a good gbcb

smfeuro

Really?? Like we didnt have enough of this this weekend. 

crdo

@BumpAdmin, would you please close this thread? Thank you.

PugsandKisses

EmilyVictoria28 said:

Thanks for the women who have helped...i don't appreciate the rudeness of the other women though all i wanted was some discussion about how other women felt before they got a BFP to see if i could relate.

No. You are rude. You are the rude, inconsiderate and cruel one.
I am sorry that your mother never taught you basic manners.

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