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May I come back? (loss mentioned)
jsassy
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Well you know what they say, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.
I started light bleeding Monday and went to the ER Wednesday afternoon. We saw a baby with a flicker measuring one day behind at 6w2d but the heart rate was low. We did leave feeling reassured. Thursday afternoon, I started heavy bleeding and my OB said I was likely going to MC due to low heart rate. She suggested I go back to ER for follow up ultrasound and possible D&C. Ultrasound Thursday night showed no pregnancy, and I was told I likely had a natural MC before getting to the ER, and no D&C was necessary. In hindsight, I knew it happened earlier in the day, and I wish I would have just stayed home. The added trauma of a second ER experience was unnecessary.
I am looking forward to getting back to temping and charting, and this board has provided a ton of support even just from a mostly lurker's perspective. We plan to TTC again after I get my first AF post-loss, and I will be back here mostly lurking until I can participate in the WTO again. We did share with a handful of friends and ILs that we were PG, so we have had to break the news to others. But the support has been really great as we feel like we only told people who we knew would support us. I am sad however that I have hurt my ILs as well, even though they say they were honored to have it shared with them in the first place. We have a couple of trips coming up that provide something really cool to look forward to, so I am hoping the transition back is smooth for DH and me. He has been so wonderful.
I always look forward to seeing more BFPs around and I wish that for every one of you ladies! I hope I am still welcome here, even though I am now lurking a couple of new boards too.
Me: 35 - DH: 34
Married: 08/2009
BFP #1: 11/2010 - DS born 07/2011
TTC #2: 02/2014
RE Dx-Unexplained IF: 06/2015
RE Dx-Unexplained IF: 06/2015
BFP #2: 08/12/15 - MC 08/27/15
BFP #3: 03/11/16 - CP
BFP #4: 04/09/16 - DD born 12/2016
BFP #3: 03/11/16 - CP
BFP #4: 04/09/16 - DD born 12/2016
Re: May I come back? (loss mentioned)
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019SA for DH pending.
LFAF April Siggy Challenge - TV/Movie BFFS - Romy & Michele
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Formerly: FtrMrsO
Me: 34 DH: 35
Married: Oct. 2007
TTC #1: June 2015
BFP#1 3/19/16 MC 3/28/16
BFP #2 5/26/16 EDD 1/31/17
Me - 33; DH - 33Dating 1/18/06
Married 9/21/13
BFP #1 12/15/15 - C Born 8/27/16
BFP #2 1/10/20 - EDD 9/8/20
RE Dx-Unexplained IF: 06/2015
BFP #3: 03/11/16 - CP
BFP #4: 04/09/16 - DD born 12/2016
Oh, I'm so very sorry to hear this.
Creepy, but very sincere hugs to you.
3/2015: Start TTC
8/2015: PCOS Dx
4/2016: BFP, Loss (4+5)
2/2017: BFP
Honorable mentions: Biggest IF support sister, sweetest bumpie, most genuine, LFAFer you'd most like to visit, great things come in small packages, pocket sized babe
Married: Oct 20, 2013
BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
EDD 1: May 12, 2016
DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)
BFP 2: October 07, 2019
EDD 2: June 20, 2020
BFP#1 & MC:August 2015 BFP: #2 10/01/2015 MC: 10/09/2015 BFP #3: 12/22/2015 @ 5 weeks MC/CP: 12-23-2015
Fertility Appointment: Feb 23/16, Hysteroscopy 03/02/2016,
BFP #4: 03/31/16 EDD 12/01/2016
TTC #2 again: July 2017
RE Dx-Unexplained IF: 06/2015
BFP #3: 03/11/16 - CP
BFP #4: 04/09/16 - DD born 12/2016
Me: 33 H: 36
Married: 12/14/13 DS: 1/29/09
BFP2: 10/9/15 MMC: 11/12/15
BFP3: 4/6/16 DD: 12/12/16
P.s. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to pm me.