I have to vent about this. Pls bear with me. I had been working out for years until I got pregnant. Then my doctor told me that my heartbeat could not go higher than 135 so I stopped once I was 15 weeks pregnant. During my pregnancy, I put on 34 lbs. (I am 5'7 in my mid 30s and weighed 160 lbs before I got pregnant. I thought the weight gain was not that bad.)From the second week of p.p., I have had members of my family ask when I was going back to the gym and when am I losing the weight. My daughter is breastfed and formula fed. For weeks, I have been overly thirsty and hungry but I try to make the right decisions. I have gone back to the gym and it has been frustrating, since I am not at the level I was before. Yesterday, a close family member told me that being 15 weeks postpartum, I need to work out longer and eat less because I need to lose weight. Did I mention that I already lost 12 lbs as of 6 weeks pp but scale has not budged since then?! I saw myself in the mirror earlier and I was not happy with how I look esp. My lower belly. I just do not know what to do. I brought the belly bandit and I am thinking about buying other products to help lose weight. I honestly do not know how ppl lose their weight so quickly. Oh yeah, one of my friends even told me that her ob said to her "that after 6 months pp., it's no longer baby weight, it's your weight." I am so frustrated and needed to vent.