My baby left us last night

sjms002

I was two months pregnant and I miscarred last night, I don't know what to do! I already told so many people that we were pregnant and everyone is so excited I can't face them I'm so humiliated I got there hopes up for nothing.
I don't know if I'll ever recover from this we were so excited and now its all over

MamaBish

I'm so very sorry. It's so hard and having to tell people is awful. Be kind to yourself and feel whatever you need to feel. Hugs to you

DanyTargaryen

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please try not to feel embarrassed. If they're decent people, anyone you told about the pregnancy will hopefully be supportive when you let them know what happened. Many hugs.

sjms002

Thank you both @MamaBish & @DanyTargaryen for your kind words, its a hard thing to go through

DanyTargaryen

I am going through a loss right now as well so I'm here if you need anyone to talk to. Feel free to PM me if you ever need to.

sjms002

Im sorry for your loss as well its a horrible thing to go through if you need someone I'm always here to talk, rant, what ever you need to do @DanyTargaryen

ceclarlinetlo

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. You didn't do anything wrong. It may not seem like it now, but you are stronger than you can imagine and you will get through this.

sjms002

Thank you for your kind words @ceclarlinetlo I hope we come out of this okay, but right now it doesn't feel like it will ever be over

AshKazmi

Sorry for your loss. When I lost my baby I told my mom and asked her to tell the whole family so I wouldn't have to. I even asked her to tell my dad eh she had been divorced from for 25 years. This time is about you and you don't owe anyone an explanation. I waited a couple days and texted my friends that knew and their condolences made me feel loved at a very lonely time. So just know you have nothing to be embarrassed about. It's not your fault it's just a terrible thing that happens. Prayers to you.

adrimolina

I am so sorry for your loss...I just had a d & c last Thursday and this is my second consecutive loss this was a missed mc and in October I had a natural MC, it is so incredibly painful.. 

Please don't feel embarrassed I am sure everyone will be more than understanding and supportive. Focus on taking care of yourself. Best of luck and hugs for you...

XO

DrKariC

I'm going through a loss right now too - I should be 2 months but I'm waiting to miscarry as my baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I had the same feeling of embarrassment on top of the sadness. It helps for me to think of it like this: those people should feel privileged that they were included with the knowledge early in your pregnancy and none of them are going to shame you or be anything but supportive. And if they're not supportive or kind, they're assholes.
I'm so sorry for your loss - the ladies on this board are very supportive and helpful and we're standing here with you.

sjms002

Thank you both so much! I have been bleeding since 2 days ago but the Dr told me my baby was fine until last night, I have my choice between a d&c and natural to make sure everything is gone, I have to make a choice by tomorrow. I have to go to the baby floor of the hospital.... I am not looking for ward to it at all. I wish I could be stronger

sjms002

Thank you everyone, you are all so helpful I'm so sorry for all of your losses! But I am thankful that this community of people is available

DrKariC

Whatever choice you make will be the right one-trust in that. I don't have my confirmation US until Monday so I won't be given the choice until then but I hope it happens naturally before then so I don't have to decide. I hope whatever you choose goes smoothly for you, as okay as something like this can.

sjms002

I think I'm.just go to talk to my OB and see which he thinks would be better in my situation and which has less bleeding and pain.... I just want to stop bleeding its just a constant painful reminder

vintagevice

I'm so so sorry for your loss. This is absolutely heartbreaking. I hope you find comfort and support from your friends and family. Be kind to yourself during this time of grieving.

nram25

Aww!! Sorry for your lost and I experienced the same thing on 1/03/15 . It was very devastating but on 4/08/15 I found out I was expecting and now here I am 24wks and counting. Keep your head up and don't give up hunz.

CarmelFairey

I am very very sorry for your loss. There's nothing to be humiliated about. I completely understand not wanting to face anyone. You don't have to. Take your time and feel how you feel. They will all understand and should be supportive. This isn't your fault.Sending you light and love.