I am hoping to find some answers... or comfort in knowing this isn't something I did.
During our first ultrasound, our doctor told us we had a healthy baby measuring 10 weeks, with a heartbeat of 172. We returned for an ultrasound at just about 13 weeks, and were told our little baby no longer had a heartbeat, measuring at 10weeks 5days. The doctor also told us it looked like there was thickening of the neucal folds on the back of her neck, and fluid in her body. That led us to believe she had a chromosomal abnormality.
The doctor recommended we have genetic testing done on the baby considering our age (DH-28, Me-27), and because we were past 10 weeks. We had the testing and it confirmed she was a girl, we named her Grace, but there were no known chromosomal abnormalities. It has been even harder for me once we found out Grace seemed to be a healthy little baby, but was lost for unknown reasons. Has anyone else experienced a similar situation? Could there have been other things wrong that the genetic testing did not find?