I need advise.. This is my 4th child I have two from my previous marriage and this is my second from this marriage. My husband is military and was gone for the last pregnancy and birth. His mother kept trying to barge in my room while I was with my mother delivering. once my son was born she came and kept flashing pictures of him like an inch away from his face and was taking pictures of him while I was breastfeeding. I was angry but bit my tongue. The next morning she was there grabbed my breast and forced it into my sons mouth. This all being said our daughter is due soon and instead of vein a witch I asked my husband of she could be at our home with the kids during delivery, and then have her come up when my mom takes over watching the other kids. He flipped out on me told me I was selfish and ignorant. My heart was broken. Everyone knows they take the baby for tests after they are born, I just want this moment to my husband and I. Am I wrong?