I recently posted about how my boyfriend wanted a paternity test since we have been only together 3 months. Back story short version: We are best friends and decided we wanted to date and boom baby happened. (Adding to post) Yes the baby is his. He has concerns because before we decided to date I was lightly seeing another man. Dating 3 months and baby is 6 weeks so there is no possible way it could be anyone else's.
Thing is now he is saying we should probably just go back to being friends but co-raise the baby together. But he was at my house ALL weekend (slept over alll 3 nights) and we are still having sex and acting very relationship like.
Is this just another freak out and way to distance himself from me and the baby? Should I even pay attention to the fact he is saying he wants out of the relationship or focus on the actions? I know actions usually speak louder than words but it is a bit hurtful to hear considering we are really close and just found out we are having a baby.
Thanks in advance.