How did everyone's week go?
Ugh I developed mastitis last night. I cant believe how quickly it came on. I'm feeling a little better today but still feel crappy anytime I pump. Did anyone else find that to be true? I am an exclusive pumper but given my super low production, I am weaning off and doing formula exclusively. I'm producing only a few drops in the affected breast and less than an ounce in the other and I'm wondering if the antibiotic (Cleocin) is drying me up. At this point I would be ok with that. I'm so ready to be done.
LO is dealing with a diaper rash - although the rash hasn't surfaced yet. It's just really red. It doesn't seem to bother him but after several days of Desitin we are trying the Triple Paste. I'm praying it works!
I finally weighed myself after weeks of not knowing. I stopped keeping track of how much I gained around 25 weeks! I have about 20lbs to lose to get to my pre-pregnancy weight but I'm shooting for 30. Once I get cleared at my post partum checkup on July 8th, I plan on getting down to business! My company pays for weight watchers and I'm going to join.
I hope everyone is doing well!!!
Re: New Moms - Weekly June 28-July 5 Updates, Issues, Accomplishments
Also, I had my post baby appointment and apparently I scored pretty high for being at risk for PPD...I'd be lying if I said I've felt awesome since giving birth, but I don't think depression is the problem. Lack of sleep, stress, wonky hormones and being surrounded by asshole adults who can't be bothered to do dishes or contribute at all (having a roommate, especially one who's BF is always there, and a baby sucks) is more accurate if you ask me.
My accomplishments: Last night I cooked a yummy dinner, got the kitchen cleaned and managed to take a 15mn shower during LO's nap which is a big deal to me since usually I have to wait for DH to be home and awake in order to shower so there is someone to keep an eye on her and I did it myself without panicking that she wasn't okay in the other room without me.
DS is 4 days old today and my accomplishments are thus -
*we are all still alive
*my milk made an appearance this morning
*I got almost 2 hours of uninteruppted sleep this morning, courtesy of DH and his magic dad hold, combined with the fact that I think the feeding right before that had some milk in it and so LO was more content than with just colostrum alone.
*stool is beginning to transition away from meconium.
Both anxious and excited for DS's first drs visit tomorrow.
LO was awake from 2-around 4 last night. He was slightly fussy but not screaming. At 3 weeks tomorrow the exhaustion is definitely setting in. Still BFing exclusively. It had been fairly easy for us and I still have thoughts of going to formula, so all of you ladies struggling shouldn't have guilt. It is hard!
Hang in there ladies! So happy I still have this board to come too!
I saw a difference in the first 24 hours. I've cut all dairy but I don't worry about things that say "may contain trace milk" or "processed in a facility that also . . ." And I've been eating some butter free cookies that have choc chips with small amounts of dairy. So I'm not full elimination yet and it seems okay.
I dreaded doing this. I eat a ton of cereal and cheese and was looking forward to eating as much ice cream as possible with my extra breastfeeding calories. I am hungry and have lost some weight but I am discovering new food ideas and figuring it out. Can't believe I waited this long. LO is a different baby. You should try it.
DH did give a bottle of "contaminated" pumped milk from the fridge and all our issues seem to come back with the additional symptom of congestion. I am definitely staying off dairy for the next few months and I am completely okay with it now that I've seen the effects. No even slightly tempted to have some ice cream.
2nd round exp 8/20/18.
Also, I had one of my BEST friends & her fiancé come over to watch a movie with DH & I today. We were talking about BFing & I was explaining how she eats whenever & the concept of on demand eating (so they'd know if LO started to get hungry, I was going to feed her). She asked about pumping, to which I explained how BFing was going awesome for us & I didn't want to introduce a bottle yet. She then proceeded to tell me how I needed to so I could "get out of the house" & leave her alone for a bit. I think I am a little "overly" upset about this, but this time where LO can & will be this little & BF exusively is short (I am a teacher & she'll be in daycare from 6am-3pm everyday {drinking breast milk from a bottle) in just FOUR SHORT WEEKS (que the tears now). I seriously don't mind spending my summer at home, prepping for school, having visitors, & loving on my baby. I guess it just reiterated for me how quick our culture expects moms to "jump back" into "normal life" after creating life & giving birth....
Ugh. But just like another mommy friend told me - I don't feel ONE ounce of guilt over my decisions for LO.
Took a trip to target and LO had a massive blow out. I mean EVERYWHERE. Not fun.
So I was so excited that I stopped bleeding and could stop wearing pads... But now I'm thinking I should keep using them, given I basically have NO bladder control :-S
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The past two days LO has been up all night screaming and today anytime I'm standing I get majorly dizzy. Ugh. I thought I was getting used to sleep deprivation but apparently not. Bleeding also started back up again today, and I'm thinking I may have pushed it too hard again.
So because of said screaming, ped put LO on baby Zantac and I can definitely tell the difference. She's been asleep off and on for 4 hours now, where she used to not even consider sleep until 2 AM. Thank god for Zantac..
My 6 week appointment is next Monday, and I'm super excited to have the pregnancy chapter finished. I need to discuss BC with OB and I'm still trying to decide what I want to use. I've never been on BC; does anyone have any stories or advice? I don't need to worry about BF. I'm leaning away from the pill because I'm forgetful anyway, and with LO it has gotten a million times worse. I thought about the shot, but I'm not a fan of the weight gain symptoms. I'm leaning toward an IUD but I'm no sure on it yet.
I'm also going cross country to visit my sister and nephews (she delivered her second son exactly 4 weeks after I). Anyone have experience flying with a 6 week old?
Since I ended up not breast feeding I'm just gonna go back on the normal pill. Free under insurance!
Your doc gave LO Zantac? Our doc says they won't diagnose reflux or related issues until her 5 week appt. which is soon, so I'm hoping we can get some relief from her constant spitting up!
I'm starting to see real smiles (not just gas smiles) and he is awake more often. He seems so aware during his awake times and we really try to capitalize on that by reading, singing, playing, and tummy time.
I also drove LO in the car today. I was very nervous, but we did it!
Question- he is now 8 lbs. I want to start baby k'tan with him. Kangaroo position won't work because he likes to stretch his legs out. Would the hug position be appropriate or does he need to be older?
I checked June before I posted (didn't check the other boards actually, not sure why) and couldn't find anything. Maybe a different wording lol. Thank you! I'll find your thread!
I feel old. I'm sad that I've somehow phased from a happy young person to a cranky old mom, seemingly overnight. I don't feel like me, mentally or physically. I miss my sexual connection with DH.
Just a hard day. Tomorrow will be better.
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Punctuation is hard...
(Never thought I'd refer to housework and being a milked cow as a minute to myself!)
DH is hitting milestones too. He has take over the Babo wrap, going to order my own today. Need to decide on color. Thought? And he is taking both kids all afternoon while I go to a work meeting today. Yay work meeting!
I feel old too. I am excited for a work meeting. I don't understand current fashion, high waisted short shorts and boxy crop tops, really? Feeling a little lost because clothes and fashion is a part of me. And I was called for a paid study on millennials and then eliminated on question one because I am not a millennial. 36, lovely, I AM old.