I realized that going from one to two kids would be an adjustment for me, but I'm really starting to feel totally overwhelmed now. I feel like just getting out of bed is a huge project for me. I'm drowning in laundry and other housework. I look around here and just want to cry-it's such a zoo. And forget DH helping-he just makes it worse.
How long after having #2 did it take to start to feel like you were getting into a normal routine again? I think I just need to know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
Re: When does this get better???
Definitely over a year.
I had a WICKED rough time the first year of Cam's life.
I think 3 months is probably standard though.
And tell your DH that if he wants a clean house and a cooked meal, hire a cleaning lady and a chef!
Just wanted to say I'm right there with you... I could have written this post word for word.
Some days are better than others and hopefully the good will soon outweigh the bad.