Supportive and a non prejudice altitude

UmitIskLogan

I must say one thing I noticed.
As women we surely don't support one another enough. Every person has their own issues. Some may feel comfortable talking about it here openly some may not want to give details. I'm in between it depends.
One thing I like to do is to speak freely and positively. At least that's what I tend to do.
I've been reading such comments that are not nice and I wonder, why would women say anything negative to another? Especially when it's a forum where you know.. you're just trying to communicate/explore/find some comfort.. etc.
Some I feel are there out to get ya but it really doesn't matter. Of course it matters as you know, we are all strangers here and you just get shocked by how people can be so quick to judge with your one word.
So I'm asking: What are some examples that puts you in a state of mind where you feel surprised by it? Example, "Wow I can't believe they took it that way" or "Oh boy, here we go another who wants to pick a fight"..
I just felt the need to voice it. Respect tells about you a lot in such cyber places like this. You can see the difference.

Be supportive and nice. There are really kind hearted people out there. Just thought I'd say something positive.

May all mom to be's have a great day. I hope all are good and all will be good.

VexyMommy

Multiple threads like this have been started and deleted by the @bumpadmin. They do nothing but cause drama.

thefithuntress

Really, OP?
I saw the response someone gave you that prompted this. This is just silly. These posts never go well and always get taken down.

dogsombrero

UmitIskLogan said:

I must say one thing I noticed.
As women we surely don't support one another enough. Every person has their own issues. Some may feel comfortable talking about it here openly some may not want to give details. I'm in between it depends.
One thing I like to do is to speak freely and positively. At least that's what I tend to do.
I've been reading such comments that are not nice and I wonder, why would women say anything negative to another? Especially when it's a forum where you know.. you're just trying to communicate/explore/find some comfort.. etc.
Some I feel are there out to get ya but it really doesn't matter. Of course it matters as you know, we are all strangers here and you just get shocked by how people can be so quick to judge with your one word.
So I'm asking: What are some examples that puts you in a state of mind where you feel surprised by it? Example, "Wow I can't believe they took it that way" or "Oh boy, here we go another who wants to pick a fight"..
I just felt the need to voice it. Respect tells about you a lot in such cyber places like this. You can see the difference.

Be supportive and nice. There are really kind hearted people out there. Just thought I'd say something positive.

May all mom to be's have a great day. I hope all are good and all will be good.

Someone did not do enough lurking before posting this.

UmitIskLogan

Why are you all so angry? I try to understand the anger but I can't. I'm not saying anything bad for sure.
But women need to be supportive to each other.
If it gets taken down it does.. It is a valid point.
@BumpAdmin Does it always get this heated? There's a lot of angry people on this nice app.

OSUJaydee

Stop. This is even worse than your snarky reply to vexy on the depression thread. This board is not all about you and your precious feelings. That depression thread was about a serious issue a poster in our community is experiencing. If you've even read half of vexy's posts, you would know that she is one of the most positive and supportive members of is community.

Peony1982

UmitIskLogan said:

Why are you all so angry? I try to understand the anger but I can't. I'm not saying anything bad for sure. But women need to be supportive to each other. If it gets taken down it does.. It is a valid point. @BumpAdmin Does it always get this heated? There's a lot of angry people on this nice app.

You're being holier than thou, that's why. Do you normally walk into a room of women who have a rapport, listen for 5 minutes, maybe say hi, then chastise them? That's what you're basically doing. It's arrogant.

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