The dr took my blood and for where they think I am at 5 weeks I could be earlier. They said my level was 44. I went to the hospital today because I started bleeding they said my level was 36. I guess that is it for me this will be the second baby we lost. It isn't fair I wish that it didn't happen like this. I want to try again but how am I supposed to enjoy my pregnancy without fear of a miscarriage? I really hope we get out baby soon. We were going to tell your families next Sunday for Father's Day and it just hurts that now we can't.
Re: I didn't want to have to go through this again
After losing the 1st I didn't think I could go on trying if we lost another. But here I sit not ready to give up, we want a 4th child more than anything. Unfortunately there is no real way to fully enjoy the early stages of a pregnancy after a previous loss. This pregnancy I just took it day by day. Felt better after a while and even if that happiness wound up being for nothing, I now know there will be a point I reach where I will feel better next time. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people and if you do decide to try again take every day that something dosn't go wrong as a blessing.
Is there any testing your Dr can do to see if you have a hormonal imbalance of some kind? I plan on asking about some simple blood tests to see if there is an issue we can rectify.
I wish you so much luck going forward. Im hoping we get our rainbow babies soon.
I just went through this myself last week.
I have the same reservations about trying again.
It's very fresh right now and I feel like it's going to take time to heal.