Wtf Wednesday

ScarReallyDidIt

You don't have to be positive here

VexyMommy

I fucking hate cutting carbs to the bone.  It's best for me and Sprout, but damn it I want apple pie and mashed potatoes.  (Separately.)

I also hate crying about stupid shit.  I really don't like crying. 

Sorry if this wasn't supposed to be a rant post, but I needed somewhere and this looked like the best place to put it. 

Ceridwen77

When people claim they are nice but are actually extremely passive aggressive. I'll take someone who doesn't sugar coat over that other type any day.

mamavbs

I feel like shit today, full of cold, blocked sinuses. I want to punch everyone in the face. I want the husband man to come running home from work with flowers (not that I can smell them) and paracetamol and soft tissues and ALL THE FOODS and say
"Drop everything, get in to this hot lavender bath I've just made for you, then get in to the clean bed I've just made and fall asleep until you're better. When you wake il make you whatever food you want and play with your hair until you feel more human. Ps you're still sexy with a red nose and I love you".

Not feeling very positive...

laswett

SO caught a softball with his own balls Sunday. Waited two days to do anything about it because he doesn't have insurance. Finally goes to the ER yesterday and finds out he busted one, and is admitted for outpatient surgery immediately. Meanwhile, I am home, no idea what's going on until I get a text that says he's on his way to surgery. THEN I go to the WRONG HOSPITAL because he goes to the one near a job site, not his home hospital, and no one tells me that. He's home today recovering, and I am exhausted at work with students who are fully aware that there are only 6 days of school left, and are acting as such.

And also, bloat.

lakesideknitter

Love DH, but he it's definitely using the pregnancy as an excuse to eat nothing but cookies for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Even when I put time and effort into making a healthy dinner. I'm exaggerating a bit, but seriously, so annoying.

AnnamariauDoris

Dh just won't understand pregnancy. I can bearly breathe when I walk a short distance. It is too hot and even a few minutes of sun (even cool morning sun) make me see yellow spots like I looked into a turned on lightbulb and after I feel heavy and feel the calling of the pavement. I finally got myself together after a few weeks and after dropping my son of at kindergarten I stoped at a friend for a coffee ( of course I was almost hugging every building with a little shadow) and had a nice talk about kids and tricks, and visited my cousin who has a newborn. He's calling me after 2 hours that I complain at home but when I feel better I go out instead of cleaning. Thank God technology only gets us this far and couldn't punch him true the phone! I finally got myself together to get our of the house to move and take a breath of air, talk with other people and enjoy that i'm not freezing anymore and he starts to talk down on me! And he is 5 years younger and I have a 4,5 y old son who is also born in november. And know what summer brings for me this year. Sorry for the long post...

keke2336

Ppl keep telling me "just wait, you'll see" F that. They don't know the future or how our lives will be.
Or when random ppl ask questions about my pregnancy. Idk you dude, you won't get all my tea spilled.
Or when ppl tel me how i should do things. I'm not you and thank god so why would I do it like you? !

emily.jeanne

Yesterday my bra gave up! I was reaching across the car and snap, my underwire gave up on holding my ever expanding boobs :-( can I just give up too?

pink*sheep

VexyMommy said:

I fucking hate cutting carbs to the bone.  It's best for me and Sprout, but damn it I want apple pie and mashed potatoes.  (Separately.)

I also hate crying about stupid shit.  I really don't like crying. 

Sorry if this wasn't supposed to be a rant post, but I needed somewhere and this looked like the best place to put it. 

Not for nothing but I would totally take on a plate of apple pie a la mashed taters. I mean I might not put the potatoes ON the pie...but please don't judge me if I did....

VexyMommy

pink*sheep said:

I fucking hate cutting carbs to the bone.  It's best for me and Sprout, but damn it I want apple pie and mashed potatoes.  (Separately.)

I also hate crying about stupid shit.  I really don't like crying. 

Sorry if this wasn't supposed to be a rant post, but I needed somewhere and this looked like the best place to put it. 

Not for nothing but I would totally take on a plate of apple pie a la mashed taters. I mean I might not put the potatoes ON the pie...but please don't judge me if I did....

lol.  A sweet version of Shepperd's Pie maybe.

BabyBourke

My SO is driving me insane! All about what can I do for him. He thinks pregnancy symptoms are an excuse even though I down play everything I feel! He wants me to cater to HIM even though he barely asks me if I need anything. I don't know how to make him understand this pregnancy thing??!! I'm exhausted with the arguing about what I'm NOT doing for him!

dogsombrero

What's with the glitter trolls? Also why am I 4x larger belly wise with twins than my first? I am scared I will be out of clothes in a few months and then I'll just go to Mumus although then I can eat more, until the mumu gets too tight and I progress to a circus tent.

dparker88

I'm pretty sick of the lovely sharp pains I get every time I sneeze or cough. I've had it since 8 weeks and it is still going strong at 14 weeks. I have bad seasonal allergies and even though I take an allergy pill, I sneeze a lot. This is one of those things no one tells you about pregnancy and even though I know it is nothing to worry about, it hurts! Can't a girl get a break. Not the worst thing in the world, but I wanted to get that off my chest.

JLW0504

I'm exhausted. Losing DH's Grandmother and sister with in 4 days of each other. Being strong for DH since he's a basket case. Meaning the house hold duties, taking on next to all responsibilities for our toddler and being pregnant. I have yet to process my grieving. Work is sucking at the moment (I work in insurance).I want all the carbs and ice cream I can handle.

And some free milk and cheese from working the WIC system.

And some choice words to the happy go glitter girls and their "positivity train"...

That is all.

dogsombrero

JLW0504 said:

I'm exhausted. Losing DH's Grandmother and sister with in 4 days of each other. Being strong for DH since he's a basket case. Meaning the house hold duties, taking on next to all responsibilities for our toddler and being pregnant. I have yet to process my grieving. Work is sucking at the moment (I work in insurance).I want all the carbs and ice cream I can handle. And some free milk and cheese from working the WIC system. And some choice words to the happy go glitter girls and their "positivity train"... That is all.

It's only been about a week or so hasn't it? Could you get a sitter for one night and just go and get some time to yourself to decompress? I did this the other night with a friend I had some delicious mock-tails and a good meal and I felt a lot more ready to deal with the world. 

LSRoo

WTF @hermes1972 for posting on @katiechickie wall that our husbands are white trash abusive alcoholics. Not very nice!!!!

LSRoo

Not nice:

Pontot31

EllaStaxx said:

Not nice:

Neither is her grammar.

brianna91chavez

Pontot31 said:

EllaStaxx said:

Not nice:

Neither is her grammar.

She's the one that used her poor English skills as an excuse when she posted that thread about being happy to see less miscarriage posts.

Pontot31

brianna91chavez said:

Pontot31 said:

EllaStaxx said:

Not nice:

Neither is her grammar.

She's the one that used her poor English skills as an excuse when she posted that thread about being happy to see less miscarriage posts.

Sure is.

Ivyblue92

Holy crap what it is with all the goody two shoes getting on their high horses because people are giving HONEST opinions. Give it up already it's tiring. How about you not scroll through the post & not comment. Stick that up your pipe and smoke it.....

And breath

modanz1

Someone on another thread said they didn't like smart-asses.  Who doesn't appreciate a good smart-ass remark? Go away, you're boring.

mmk29

Why are all the positivity only people the ones that call people bitches, whores, white trash, bullies, and insert whatever else horrible name comes to mind (remember the dish rag comment??) Honestly people, if "negativity" bothers you so much stop being so negative yourself!

pink*sheep

mmk29 said:

Why are all the positivity only people the ones that call people bitches, whores, white trash, bullies, and insert whatever else horrible name comes to mind (remember the dish rag comment??) Honestly people, if "negativity" bothers you so much stop being so negative yourself!

That's right! The dish rag, wowzers I can't believe I almost forgot that one!

Stephanieshort2

My mother has been a total train wreck lately. She has been fired from 2 separate jobs, is on the verge of losing her house, and her marriage is failing (but has been since day 1, she just won't let it go). Our whole family has gone above and beyond to offer advice and help, including financial assistance, but she just can't keep it together.  She is on anti-depressants and sees a physician regularly, but she won't make any attempts to better her situation. She truly believes that the world is against her and will pitch a fit if something doesn't go her way. (Btw, she is temporarily living with us, so there is no escape!!!)  I feel like I'm dealing with a moody teenager.... praying for the strength to remain patient. 

Rant over.. thanks for listening! 

jscasher

I have so much work to do around the house, and keep telling DH we need to get started (I have a week off and he's off for the summer.) the last couple days we haven't done anything!! He's so good at finding ways to distract me so we do fun things, not work. I'm putting my foot down today!

urby87

dparker88 said:

I'm pretty sick of the lovely sharp pains I get every time I sneeze or cough. I've had it since 8 weeks and it is still going strong at 14 weeks. I have bad seasonal allergies and even though I take an allergy pill, I sneeze a lot. This is one of those things no one tells you about pregnancy and even though I know it is nothing to worry about, it hurts! Can't a girl get a break. Not the worst thing in the world, but I wanted to get that off my chest.

Ugh, @dparker88, I feel you.  I don't usually get the sneeze pains, but yesterday I had one that was absolutely terrible.  It lingered for several seconds, and it was so painful.

urby87

Pontot31 said:

Not nice:

Neither is her grammar.

She's the one that used her poor English skills as an excuse when she posted that thread about being happy to see less miscarriage posts.

Sure is.

To be fair, she speaks multiple languages and English is not her first.  I can give her grammar a pass for that reason, but not her nastiness and rude assumptions.  Ew.

LSRoo

Ah yes! The dish rag comment. I believe that was Miss Positivity KSabyan who called me a dish rag. She is still deciding if she is in O15 or N15. She was supposed to go to O15 yet she is graces us with pictures of her "bump".

Lsager424

Yesterday I farted so hard I peed my pants. And today I went to the doctor thinking something was wrong with the LO, only to be told that I probably need to poop. Pregnancy is fucking humiliating.

ktrimble8807

I am so sick of people asking me how I am feeling and then when I actually tell them how I feel they just reply back saying "oh well this is what you wanted" or "just wait, its will only get worse"... like shut the f up! 

mmk29

@Lsager424 yes it is, and the stories will keep coming.

ktrimble8807 said:

I am so sick of people asking me how I am feeling and then when I actually tell them how I feel they just reply back saying "oh well this is what you wanted" or "just wait, its will only get worse"... like shut the f up! 

Or whatever you say that have to upstage. "Well when I was pregnant I had it wayyyyy worse", and somehow think you should be thankful that it's 15 weeks and you're still puking.

Flashparade

I'm so over peeing myself all . . . the . . . time. Every pregnancy gets worse. I'll be wearing adult diapers before I'm 35.

Pontot31

I woke up at midnight- 2 hours before my alarm goes off to Charlie horses in both legs! They hurt so bad I had to stand up. I never fell back to sleep! It was a looong work day.
On the plus side - I got out of bed and ate chips and queso at 1am.

crysgx

I have a group of about 8 close friends and recently one sent her bachelorette trip invites for Halloween weekend. I obviously can not attend the out of state trip bc my due date is Nov 7. The past few days I've had to hear all about how much fun and what a great time they will be having. All the planning, and booking and ideas. One even said "you better hold that baby in until we get back". I'm annoyed, jealous, bitter and feel left out. I'm the first pregnancy within our friend circle and they just don't understand! Ok rant over! Whew!

kmkrushi

EllaStaxx said:

Not nice:

WT actual F!!!! B*tch! Back off with your size 2 leather pants and designer shit excuses to post pictures of yourself! End rant.

WTF 2nd trimester? Where's my energy?

mmk29

crysgx said:

I have a group of about 8 close friends and recently one sent her bachelorette trip invites for Halloween weekend. I obviously can not attend the out of state trip bc my due date is Nov 7. The past few days I've had to hear all about how much fun and what a great time they will be having. All the planning, and booking and ideas. One even said "you better hold that baby in until we get back". I'm annoyed, jealous, bitter and feel left out. I'm the first pregnancy within our friend circle and they just don't understand! Ok rant over! Whew!

I'm so sorry. I completely understand this. Maybe you could plan a babymoon for you and your husband. This way you have a fun vacation to look forward to as well. It might make those conversations a little easier.

katiedhunter

WTF bad pregnancy dreams! You can go away now and leave my peace of mind alone.

SquattingGryphon

Pontot31 said:

I woke up at midnight- 2 hours before my alarm goes off to Charlie horses in both legs! They hurt so bad I had to stand up. I never fell back to sleep! It was a looong work day.
On the plus side - I got out of bed and ate chips and queso at 1am.

Me too! Well just on one leg last night. Holy shizzles. I thought my calf was about to go into labor.

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