So, all day I was thinking about my leftovers from dinner last night as an easy meal for tonight (DH is at work.) I came home to find my leftover box sitting empty on the kitchen table (not so DH ate them!). I'm so irritated! I was just out and about. Couldn't he have at least given me a heads up that he ate it?! I really don't want to go back out and the kitchen is sparce. Additionally, I didn't want to cook. I just wanted to heat up my leftovers! It feels ridiculous even typing this out, but I'm still kind of pissed. Am I just being hormonal? I hope so! It'd make me feel less crazy. LOL! Thanks for letting me vent ladies.
When pregnant with DD, I once walked around the grocery store back and forth between the deli and the frozen foods looking for fried chicken. We didn't have a chicken place in our town then. The deli was out of chicken and there weren't any boxes of the frozen stuff either. I kept walking back and forth like it was going to magically appear.
Although I think your reaction was hormonal, at least you can be happy with the fact that he thinks your cooking tastes great! I'm sorry he your dinner plans though :-(
I threatened a Texas Roadhouse Waiter with bodily harm last pregnancy when my steak came out blue and he told me it was "no big deal". I was 20 weeks pregnant, hangry, and his flippant attitude was the last straw. No regrets. He now has a lesson about pregnant women and food that will serve him well in life.
I just had a laugh with your post because I can totally relate and I too feel like a crazy person when it happens. I cried my eyes out the other day when my husband ate the leftover pizza without even asking me. I didn't say anything to him because in my head I knew it would be irrational to fight about that but as soon as he left for work I started crying.
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I threatened a Texas Roadhouse Waiter with bodily harm last pregnancy when my steak came out blue and he told me it was "no big deal". I was 20 weeks pregnant, hangry, and his flippant attitude was the last straw. No regrets. He now has a lesson about pregnant women and food that will serve him well in life.
Absolutely! Downstairs from DH's office is an organic restaurant where the staff likes to think that they are very "cool," and friendly with the customers. So of course I knew the entire staff there, and one morning I wanted my breakfast sandwich with the egg cooked thoroughly. We were going through infertility treatments at the time (2WW) and I was way more hormonal that I ever am KU. They asked me if I was pregnant and I told them that we were trying. They went into a rant about how annoying it is when people say that they are "trying."
While... Let me tell you something, these two 20 something-year-old guys were given a life lesson in TTC, pregnancy and pregnancy loss. I told them that unless they have had issues TTC that they should keep their mouths shut and give me my G-d egg cooked! All the women in the restaurant started applauding.
omg terrible! i cried the other night because i left the taco meat out too long and couldn't pack it up for lunch the next day. it wasn't even like a loud sudden dramatic cry... it went like this: my husband said "hey, weren't you going to pack this up for lunch?" and i felt my bottom lip quiver and i slowly got very disappointed and my eyes filled with tears.
i'm laughing as i type this but i was upset about that one all night. i hope you've been fed now!!
I have threatened SO with being kicked out and/or bodily harm if he even THINKS about touching something that is mine. There can be no other food in the house and my main cravings are always still there. He also knows now to never try and make me my vegetable soup which my mom either mails or brings down (2nd time she brought down like 8 cans I'm down to 3 and she is mailing more) he burned a can of it and I can't get that store brand down here and others just taste like salt to me. He's been warned and trained.
Although I think your reaction was hormonal, at least you can be happy with the fact that he thinks your cooking tastes great! I'm sorry he your dinner plans though :-(
@abuck83 since become ktfu I get really set on something to eat- like I'm obsessed- and have a hard time if the plan changes and I can't have that. So I feel ya!
The worst is when you're super set on something and it disappoints. The other day I was SO excited for a Chipotle burrito, and decided to get the tofu things on it for added protein (I'm a veg) and it was ruined... Whatever they use is crunchy and ick.
@beckah31: That is crazy because I was at a Texas Roadhouse last week and they brought my steak tips out medium and I had to send the dish back...twice! They couldn't have been nicer about it though. I'm sorry you had a bad experience!
Although I think your reaction was hormonal, at least you can be happy with the fact that he thinks your cooking tastes great! I'm sorry he your dinner plans though :-(
Apparently someone told my husband "when your wife is pregnant, never eat the last anything" and I think it's the best advice he has ever gotten! I would be mad too!
We went to Houston a few weeks ago for a crawfish boil at a friend's house. They had a keg and DH does not remember how many beers he had. When we got to our hotel, he wanted popcorn. I told him that the lobby probably had some stuff or maybe they had a vending machine that would have some. We were staying in one of those places that has the little kitchens, so a microwave and all that.
He went to the lobby and they had stuff, but no popcorn. He came back from there and told me, and I asked him why he didn't get a Snickers or something. He said, "But I want popcorn" all sad. I told him, "Welcome to pregnancy!"
My last pregnancy I woke up at 3am wanting my leftovers from dinner. I went out to eat the half hamburger with mushroom cognac on a delicious homemade brioche bun (can you tell I'm still bitter?) to find out DH ate it before he came to bed. I was PISSED to say the least. I woke him up (again, it was 3am) and gave him an earful. I was crying and all. I don't ever care about someone eating my food, but I turned into a maniac. I still think about how crazy I was that night!
Re: Over reacted - but that's normal sometimes right?
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While... Let me tell you something, these two 20 something-year-old guys were given a life lesson in TTC, pregnancy and pregnancy loss. I told them that unless they have had issues TTC that they should keep their mouths shut and give me my G-d egg cooked! All the women in the restaurant started applauding.
Married 07/29/10 and blessed with our Baby Boy Bowen on 06/17/2013
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