I'm a FTM and I have no idea what to do in terms of baby showers. My cousins always held a little gathering of family members and a few friends but I was too young to really retain any of the ins and outs. Is there a certain etiquette? Would it be a bad thing if I scheduled it and let family and friends help out? I'm open to all advice.
Edit: Almost all of my close friends live out of state, how do I go about choosing someone to help me out with the majority of it?