Before I found out I was pregnant my hubby & I were very social with our friends just about every weekend. However, we have decided not to tell anyone except close family that we are pregnant until after the first trimester. Therefore, instead of going to events like for example a party tonight I make up excuses & lies that I am sick bc I'm tired & don't have the energy. I feel so bad though & I feel like somehow I'm going to get caught blowing off friends & co-workers. I feel like such a horrible person... Advice?