So I am 33 weeks today ! I can't sleep at night or get comfortable during the day because of this crazyy heat! And on top of that my AC is not working so I am sweating bullets... Today I am going to my brother in laws wedding and I don't know how I'm going to survive with the crowd ... I'm stressed
I woke up to my AC not working as well. I was not happy for it to be over 80 degrees at 6:30 in the morning lol. Thankfully, the thermostat just needed new batteries. Today I have a hospital tour and i'm hoping it goes well so I can decide on which hospital to deliver at.
We have a wedding to go to this weekend. My husband is in it and for some reason they are all spending the night at the river tmw and then hanging out alllll day before the wedding (it is at night). I have never liked sleeping alone and we had some trust issues (not cheating, just doing DUMB things) for a long time at the beginning of our relationship, and for like 3 years now it hasn't been a worry but for some reason I just worry he'll do something dumb like he used to. I am trying not to care that he's going but I'm stressing already.
Today is my last day at work- and we're all going to a creamery to hang out and do some silly awards Seems like it will be a nice last day!
@Jkp7749 try not to worry too much so you don't stress yourself or baby out... On the other hand try talking to him before he goes, tell him how you are feeling and who knows he might just end up not spending the night out and just see them the next day to hang out.. Guys seem to lose it when they're together lol
And aww hope you have fun since it's your last day
I'm sitting at the airport getting ready to go to Cuba! It's a work trip, I'm taking a group of 18 alumni and donors on a licensed people-to-people exchange. I can't wait because it's a once in a lifetime experience but I'll miss DH. This is the first time we've been apart for so long (13 days) and I'm sure he'll miss feeling baby kick at night, and I'll sure miss cuddling him. I also hope I don't go super early and have to worry about giving birth in Cuba!
I woke up to my AC not working as well. I was not happy for it to be over 80 degrees at 6:30 in the morning lol. Thankfully, the thermostat just needed new batteries. Today I have a hospital tour and i'm hoping it goes well so I can decide on which hospital to deliver at.
I had this happen to me once in the winter. I woke up and my house was almost as cold as it was outside. Don't even get me started on how stupid I think it is that your house tries to kill you just because the thermostat needs some damn batteries haha
@Numajawara I am so sorry for you to be without ac I think I would go to a hotel! Lol! I can't take the heat!
I have a dr apt today with a new dr who will actually be my surgeon. (I am having c section) I can't stand my dr anymore. She has been annoying the shit out of me. All she cares about is how much weight I've gained. She cancels so many appts and I just don't feel like she cares about me. She still shakes my hand when she comes into the room everytime like we are meeting for the first time and forgot the rogam sp* shot I had to remind her. So with 4 weeks to go I am switching Drs. I hope is goes well I am nervous, but this is the right decision.
Not much going on today but I have a Dr appt and ultrasound tomorrow morning! If all goes well, this will be my last ultrasound (they are doing this one because little one had some fluid in her kidneys at 23 weeks and they want to see if it's gone). 8 weeks to go!
Have a 3d ultrasound rescan since baby girl was uncooperative last time back at 28 weeks, 34 weeks now can't wait to see what our munchkin is looking like now.
Yesterday, I wiped out...completely fell at almost 34 weeks. Like a scene out of movie, legs in the air! Thought my water broke too because my pants were wet after the fall. Called my doctor, my husband at work, and my sisters. We were a well oiled machine and were prepared! Baby was fine. And I just peed my pants on the fall!! Glamorous!!!
Is it weird that I didn't think to post on the bump? I feel like if it's a real emergency, you won't have time to start a conversation. Just some food for thought when you are worried about the severity of your condition.
In a few weeks, I'm going to stay with my parents until the baby comes and then stay for a few weeks after she's born for support and help. I'm faced with the decision of whether I should keep my comfy cozy apartment, or move in with my parents permanently which is what they'd like. My mom is so excited about this baby, but she's not the "take over" type LOL I'd very much still be MOMMY to my daughter, but they just want to help out and spend time with their newest grand baby. Now, I CAN afford to keep my own space and provide for the both of us, but if I move home, there will be no daycare bills, and I'll be able to save for my own house in a matter of two years. So many positives with this move, but I'm so used to living on my own! Decisions, decisions....
@mommy1922 If you can take living with you parents, I would go for it! You could save all that daycare money and pop it in a fund for your bubs. My mom used to run a home daycare, so I am trying to get her to quit her nursing job and start that up again so I can get some cheap childcare, haha.
Just chilling today, we cleaned and got most of the house ready for the baby yesterday and I can't wait for my brother to visit tomorrow for the weekend.
@mommy1922 my husband and I moved in with my parents when we had our first little girl. I took a one year maternity leave with her and we were able to save enough money to buy our dream home. Take advantage of all the help people offer you. As a STM, I learned that being a martyr doesn't get you anywhere! you have a family that is willing to help....take it!
@Ckorines :I'm glad you are ok! Sorry you fell! But good to know your emergency response team is in full effect! We closed on selling our house yesterday and closing on the new house tomorrow. Not looking forward to the process of moving and packing but ready for this to be done. Hoping the "nesting" will kick in and help with the unpacking. My 3 yr old says he's "not gonna sleep in that new room until it is my favorite color: blue!"
@SnarkasaurusRex and @Ckorines I completely agree with you ladies and more than likely, that's what I'll do. I've rented for about 6 years, and it's about time I invested in me and my little one. And I just thank God my parents are giving me that option! So, I think the decision is made, it's just the execution is on hold for a few months. I just don't have the ENERGY to do a thing right now, much less pack and move! Lol my hat goes off to you ladies who ARE moving soon... Wear your super capes proudly! I'll be on the couch I-) LOL
So I know a lot of ladies get scolded by their doctors for gaining too much weight. Today, my midwife made a comment about not gaining enough. I'm 35 weeks tomorrow and have gained 20 lbs. She said not to restrict my eating, the goal is 25. First off, I still have 5 weeks, I'm sure those 5 lbs will come quickly. Secondly, why would I restrict my eating. That seemed like a silly comment. And thirdly, If I only gain 20 lbs my entire pregnancy, thats pretty normal. She acted concerned or like I was trying not to gain weight. I gained like 35 with my first and most came towards the end, so I'm honestly not cincerned at all. Not really sure why she brought it up.
@gotdiesel2007 I know right. I'm pretty on track with weight gain. I found it so odd that it was even mentioned. It's like they want something to make you nervous about. I think she was just trying to find SOMETHING because I always go in there with no problems and she feels seriously not giving me advice lol
Had my 32 week appointment today- Up until now baby and belly have been measuring right on track, baby was was 50th percentile in growth at my last ultrasound at 26 weeks. Today doctor measures my belly and says I'm measuring closer to 35 weeks! She didn't seem too concerned, but she did schedule me an ultrasound for the 9th to see what LO is up to in there. I'm trying to stay positive because she did say it's only a tad bigger than normal (had I been measuring 34 weeks instead of 35 she wouldn't have bothered with the ultrasound) but I can't stop speculating on what could cause that much growth in the 4 weeks since my last appointment.
On the bright side, I didn't think we would get to see LO again before her due date so that will be nice. Fingers crossed she is just a big healthy baby and nothing else is going on!
@rnasir I don't want you to be self conscious at all. However my cousin posted a picture of her feet that swollen and ended up having pre-eclampsia. Has your doctor seen? I just want you healthy and if it's just swelling, then who cares! But pre-eclampsia got scary for my cousin. Just looking out and sorry if I made you self conscious! That was not my intention.
@rnasir I don't want you to be self conscious at all. However my cousin posted a picture of her feet that swollen and ended up having pre-eclampsia. Has your doctor seen? I just want you healthy and if it's just swelling, then who cares! But pre-eclampsia got scary for my cousin. Just looking out and sorry if I made you self conscious! That was not my intention.
No no not at all... I did show my feet to my doctor and she suggested compression stockings. I walk a lot and even at work its a lot of walking. so I think it's just swelling but I will definitely bring it up again at my next appointment June 2nd. Thank you for your suggestion!!! Hugs...
Is anyone else severely nauseous?! I just want to cry
Yup. I throw up and get naseous every day pretty much all day and it sucks because I also have bad headaches and that just makes it worst. Make sure you are drinking a lot of fluids and watch what you eat, sometimes certain foods can trigger your naseau to get worst.
Re: Thursday randoms !
@SnarkasaurusRex snissing = hell for me lol and isn't that so sweet of them I quit my job since last month so no colleagues throwing me a shower
We have a wedding to go to this weekend. My husband is in it and for some reason they are all spending the night at the river tmw and then hanging out alllll day before the wedding (it is at night). I have never liked sleeping alone and we had some trust issues (not cheating, just doing DUMB things) for a long time at the beginning of our relationship, and for like 3 years now it hasn't been a worry but for some reason I just worry he'll do something dumb like he used to. I am trying not to care that he's going but I'm stressing already.
Today is my last day at work- and we're all going to a creamery to hang out and do some silly awards Seems like it will be a nice last day!
And aww hope you have fun since it's your last day
Don't even get me started on how stupid I think it is that your house tries to kill you just because the thermostat needs some damn batteries haha
I have a dr apt today with a new dr who will actually be my surgeon. (I am having c section) I can't stand my dr anymore. She has been annoying the shit out of me. All she cares about is how much weight I've gained. She cancels so many appts and I just don't feel like she cares about me. She still shakes my hand when she comes into the room everytime like we are meeting for the first time and forgot the rogam sp* shot I had to remind her. So with 4 weeks to go I am switching Drs. I hope is goes well I am nervous, but this is the right decision.
@lovermyboys I'm thinking bout that hotel idea lol and sheesh I will switch doctors to if that's how my doctor was smh hope all goes well !
Married 03/18/10
DS #2 Born 05/19/11
DS #3 Due 07/26/15
Is it weird that I didn't think to post on the bump? I feel like if it's a real emergency, you won't have time to start a conversation. Just some food for thought when you are worried about the severity of your condition.
We closed on selling our house yesterday and closing on the new house tomorrow. Not looking forward to the process of moving and packing but ready for this to be done. Hoping the "nesting" will kick in and help with the unpacking.
My 3 yr old says he's "not gonna sleep in that new room until it is my favorite color: blue!"
Ps give the kid what he wants and paint that shit blue! Do it!
First off, I still have 5 weeks, I'm sure those 5 lbs will come quickly.
Secondly, why would I restrict my eating. That seemed like a silly comment.
And thirdly, If I only gain 20 lbs my entire pregnancy, thats pretty normal.
She acted concerned or like I was trying not to gain weight. I gained like 35 with my first and most came towards the end, so I'm honestly not cincerned at all. Not really sure why she brought it up.
I seriously don't get the weight issue unless their is a medical reason like GD or the people that "eat for two" and end up gaining 100+lbs bc of it.
Married 03/18/10
DS #2 Born 05/19/11
DS #3 Due 07/26/15
I think she was just trying to find SOMETHING because I always go in there with no problems and she feels seriously not giving me advice lol
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Pheww! Thought I'd never see the day! :-bd
No no not at all... I did show my feet to my doctor and she suggested compression stockings. I walk a lot and even at work its a lot of walking. so I think it's just swelling but I will definitely bring it up again at my next appointment June 2nd. Thank you for your suggestion!!! Hugs...