hi I'm sorta new to this I'm 38 weeks pregnant and due to have my c-section next Friday. I have 2 children from a previous relationship and now married to my husband we are having a little girl! His family didn't care much when I got pregnant didn't say congrats or anything then threw me a baby shower and stopped caring. My 2 children from before get no attention at all from his family they've missed birthdays and everything! I don't want my children who are only 6 and 4 to wonder why their "grandma & grandpa" don't care about them but do about their sister! And my husband won't say anything! Is that petty or do I have a right to be upset? I just would prefer not having them around until all children are excepted I mean it's been 3 years almost you would think that's enough time?