Mother's Day who knew could be so stressful

kirsty100

So I worked out now I spew when I'm really stressed my mil messages my partner stating that his nan was coming down for lunch for mother day when I told her weeks ago were gonna have lunch at my mums and dinner with them anyways things change get that so we both just decided he go to his mums I'll go to mine sweet his nan hasn't ended up coming down but we decided because thing a changed leave it like that so we can spend tonight together just easier mind you he's mums crazy! Like insane so his dad calls and said that its stupid idea doing two separate Mother's Day blah blah blah which I think it's fine they changed it so they can deal with plus my dads uncle is dying going off life support today due to cardiac arrest so like f&:@ me like there more important things in life then her getting us both Mother's Day and she shouldn't changed plans so she obviously had big carry on to my fil about how I'm not going there blah blah blah like shit she's made my life hell being pregnant now carrying on like she couldn't even get out of bed yesterday when I called around there so why should I be dictated by her I have more important things to worry about am I being u unreasonable!? I'm soooo angry!!!! I just want to explode because I'm sick of her childish behaviour my mum deserves attention to life doesn't revolve around her but sure seems like it has to!!! No one understands! I dreaded telling her I was pregnant because she just become obsessive like I thought and I think she thinks this baby is going to be hers because all she's ever wanted was a grandchild but let's be honest she just wants to control everybody! Not me I refuse to let that happen but seems to be making me go crazy I don't know how to deal anymore

handjbyrne

That sucks...my MIL can be like that...not so much over Mother's Day (yet) but definitely other holidays. Hold your ground and set boundaries...she will pout and be nasty when she doesn't get her way but it doesn't mean you need to give in.

kirsty100

It's making me crazy I used to be on anxiety tablet and now my anxiety is through the roof I can't handle it I'm going to speak to doctor next time I go but I feel so bad for my partner but like I'm going crazy we have nearly broken up because of her so many times

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