I have a serious question about a baby shower. I'm ending up having more than one person throw me one; my aunt wants to throw me one, and my MIL wants to throw me a seperate one because it's her first grandchild and she wants family and such on their side to actually come to one.
MIL knows I hate attention and wants it to be low key, so she's thinking about not inviting my mom (my mom is crazy about making things over-the-top and would take it all over). It's MIL's first grandchild, my mom's sixth, it's it's more special for my MIL. I just wanted to know what people thought.
I just don't know what to tell her. I know she doesn't like my mom and I don't want this to be a petty thing, but I also know she doesn't like my mom and I don't want this to be unpleasant.