Nervous- meeting with RE today for a new plan (loss mentioned)

westiemom22

Hi all,

I have been doing really well considering I found out Monday that our twins hearts stopped at 9 weeks. Of course I have had some crying spells but I have been ok. Today, my doctor is back from his vacation so we are meeting with him today to double check one more time before our D&C tomorrow. I know they are gone because it was confirmed by a nurse and another doctor. Since this is our third loss and our second IVF cycle, I'm scared the doctor is going to tell me it's hopeless and I'm out of options. We did PGS testing, our embryos were the highest possible rating, I did everything right and took heparin and we still lost them. I can't stop crying today. I think it's just feeling all too real. I'm ready to move forward but scared no one else will believe it's possible. Thanks for letting me vent. Anyone else have luck after this much failure?

LovinLife33

I am so sorry for your losses.

Edited, sorry was on wrong board, I apologize.

jnissa

I am so very very sorry for your loss.

Is a surrogate entirely out of the question? 

westiemom22

Surrogate is definitely an option. We are both open to it. The doctor wants to give my body another shot after running some tests. We will wait and see after those return and our hormones go back to zero. It was a much better meeting than I anticipated. The doctor was very encouraging and positive which helped a ton! Whew!

dolphin012

So sorry for your loss. 

Nice you had a positive appt. with your dr.