Full of Nerves

GoodSuri

Hi ladies
I am 4 weeks today! I am a little crampy but nothing to bad....i am just so nervous every symptom i have is leading me to miscarriage. ...i know this sounds horrible but i am just so scared to have another one. My breats are also not sore which males me a little nervous too. I wosh i was full of joy and happiness but instead its fear amd nerves...just venting bc i cant tell anyone yet.

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GoodSuri said:

Hi ladies
I am 4 weeks today! I am a little crampy but nothing to bad....i am just so nervous every symptom i have is leading me to miscarriage. ...i know this sounds horrible but i am just so scared to have another one. My breats are also not sore which males me a little nervous too. I wosh i was full of joy and happiness but instead its fear amd nerves...just venting bc i cant tell anyone yet.

I'm creeping in from the TTGP board and recognized your sn... Keep in mind that symptoms may come and go. I know it's hard when you're so worried. I too have had losses and my dr told me that if I wanted I could do weekly HCG blood testing to track the progress of my next pregnancy. Not sure if that would help you or make you more nervous for the weekly results but maybe you could do that too? It may also depend what your insurance covers.

GoodSuri

That's not a bad idea...and my doctor knows mu concerns for sure...so maybe i will give them a call...i think its all bc i feel guilty bc i am not excited yet...i am trying but scared to give into hope.

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GoodSuri said:

That's not a bad idea...and my doctor knows mu concerns for sure...so maybe i will give them a call...i think its all bc i feel guilty bc i am not excited yet...i am trying but scared to give into hope.

I totally understand, lots of positive good vibes your way, good luck

MrsN092714

Creepin from Oct.... Is this your first? I had cramps similar to period cramps up until about 7 weeks and still occasionally get them. My boobs didn't start to hurt until 5.5-6 weeks, which seemed to be the time most other symptoms started as well. Cramps are just a sign that your uterus is doing what it should. I had some bleeding around 5 weeks and one of the nurses told me if my cramps weren't any worse than normal it was a good sign, but with being pregnant for the first time you get a lot of aches and pains.... Part of the game! Try not to worry to much. Extreme cramping and heavy bleeding are a bad sign, until then, enjoy every min (and ache and pain with it) of your pregnancy! It's all just what your body should be doing! Congrats!

SunnyD2015

I know it is easier said that done, but try to relax.  I know what you are going through.  I had three losses before I got pregnant with my third.  I have to talk myself out of testing everyday just to see the lines get darker  ;;)  

Take a deep breath and let your body do what it is supposed to do. 

Erin