Okay so I recently explained to my fiancé what a push present is. He was 100% on board. That was pre pregancy and pre him living with an insain hungry hormonal beast of a woman. So no he has decalared he needs a "deal" present from me for dealing with all of my crazyness. Lol I told him the baby is his gift...one that he dousnt have to work for. He said Nope. He said that I go through birth to then form the bond with the baby that no man could have. So the baby is just as much my gift as his. Lol he just pointed out the Porsche 911 he wants as "deal" present. Lol I tould him to kiss my ass lol.
Re: Push present /my insaine fiancé and his "deal" present
I have a friend who started the necklace with baby's birthstone.
However - I don't believe my husband will be showing up with a gift. His gift to me will be not passing out during my labor
I got a watch and necklace and thought it was so amazing of my husband to pick out such lovely jewelry for me. It was super sweet.
It's just my thoughts on it and I'm only worked up about it because I recently had a friend say she wouldn't get pregnant unless she was going to get a really nice gift like diamond earrings, ugh people.
To each their own though.
DH and I agreed that push presents are not our style.
He surprised me after our first day home with a picture frame for our new LO (we were team green). So my "push present" request is another picture frame for this sweet baby. It was perfect for me.
So funny!!!