So my best friend of 15 years is a blabber mouth. When I told her about my infertility problems, she told one of our mutual guy friends all about it. That was personal and NOT something I wanted shared with him. Who knows who else she told. Anyway, that is just one of many examples of how she can't keep anything to herself.
Now I am pregnant, almost 11 weeks and due at the end of September. I should be excited to tell her, but I feel like she will tell everyone and I'm dreading it. So far she is on her way to becoming the last to find out. My DH thinks I should let her find out on facebook, but I know she she would be upset. Oh and she always says kind of snarky and rude things and I worry about what she will say when I tell her. I know, she's probably not the best friend a girl could have, but that's a whole separate issue.
Does anyone know how or when I should tell her? We are probably going to announce to the rest of our friends and family soon with a Facebook announcement by week 13 or 14.
Me: 28 DH: 29
TTC since July 2013
September 2013 period still hasn't started since getting off BC
October 2013 OBGYN prescribed 4 months of unmonitored Clomid
3 Months of Clomid, ovulated once
Opted to not do 4th cycle without proper testing found new OBGYN
January 2014 new OBGYN diagnosed me with PCOS ordered ultrasound
January 2014 Ultrasound found possible uterine septum
February 2014 MRI confirmed uterine septum, referral to RE
March 2014 RE scheduled septum removal for late June
Benched due to possible miscarriages if falling pregnant, back on BC
June 2014 Septum Removal surgery, hysteroscopy/laparascopy
Laparascopy revealed mild endometriosis
Benched until September 2014 for recovery and healing
October 2014 - First letrozole, HCG trigger, TI cycle, 18mm follie
November 2014 - BFP - loss at 6 weeks
January 2015 - Green light to try again 18mm follie, letrozole, HCG trigger
January 2015 - BFP - two ultrasounds and strong heartbeat found on Doppler!!!
Re: Best friend is a blabber mouth
George (3)
TTC since July 2013
September 2013 period still hasn't started since getting off BC
October 2013 OBGYN prescribed 4 months of unmonitored Clomid
3 Months of Clomid, ovulated once
Opted to not do 4th cycle without proper testing found new OBGYN
January 2014 new OBGYN diagnosed me with PCOS ordered ultrasound
January 2014 Ultrasound found possible uterine septum
February 2014 MRI confirmed uterine septum, referral to RE
March 2014 RE scheduled septum removal for late June
Benched due to possible miscarriages if falling pregnant, back on BC
June 2014 Septum Removal surgery, hysteroscopy/laparascopy
Laparascopy revealed mild endometriosis
Benched until September 2014 for recovery and healing
October 2014 - First letrozole, HCG trigger, TI cycle, 18mm follie
November 2014 - BFP - loss at 6 weeks
January 2015 - Green light to try again 18mm follie, letrozole, HCG trigger
January 2015 - BFP - two ultrasounds and strong heartbeat found on Doppler!!!