Hello! I'm so happy to have found this board. I'm happy to say I had a good 6 week ultrasound after 2 years if trying and ivf. We were so lucky to hear the heartbeat and see a fetal pole at the 6 week ultrasound. The doctor, however, told me that I'm still in a "very precarious" time and we can't determine viability until the 8 week ultrasound, which is today. I know my chances are better because the 6 week was good, but I'm still so nervous that I had a panic attack this morning & couldn't go to work. I don't really have a question, I'm just feeling lucky to have found a forum to share this. Thanks for being here.
I understand. I went through a similar situation (6 weeks heart beat and fetal pole) and then my 8 week ultrasound. Try to stay positive although I know how hard it can be. Having a heart beat and a fetal pole is a great sign! Best of luck!
Once you see a strong HB & fetal pole and see the baby growing on track, there is reason to be much more optimistic. Of course, with IF brain, we'll still always worry. I think I still get nervous before each and every OB appointment and ultrasound! Good luck!
Me 33, DH 37 -- TTC since Jan'12 -- Low AMH (0.78) & endo, SA w/ low motility IUI's 1-3 = BFN, IVF converted to IUI 4/13 = BFN IVF 1.2: 8R 6M 4F -- 2 blastocysts frozen, FET 8/15 = BFP!! Beta #s = 445;1,098; 9,545 -- EDD 5/2 -- Team Pink!
Thank you so much for your support. I'm really really glad to have found this forum. Everyone else just seems so chill and I just can't be.
Anyway, I'm really happy to say the ultrasound went well! The doctor saw normal progression of growth (8 weeks 6 days from 6 weeks 1 day in just 2 weeks, but there is a 3 day margin of error) and a strong heart rate (179).
I wish I could say that I'm ecstatic, but really I'm just exhausted and feeling like I've dodged a bullet for now. I guess that's IF brain.
They released me from their care and now I'll go to the "normal" doctor in 2 weeks, which is strange, but I know it's really good. They were all very sweet and I cried (which seems to be all I'm doing today).
Great news!! It was hard for me (and most IF women) to go from the constant appts and checks at the re office to the normal ob. My ob knows everything we went through because he's good friends with my re. I hope you have a good experience at your first appt too!
SIGGY WARNING//TICKER WARNING//PAIF
Long of the Short:
TTC since April 2013 DH 42 y/o I'm 30 Dh had vasectomy reversal Feb 2013 after 3 months developed scar tissue
First Re appt was September 2013 OOP for everything minus meds
DH's TESE surgery December 2013
First cycle was February 2014 BFN none to freeze
Second cycle was April 2014 BFP ending in Chemical Pregnancy none to freeze
Third cycle June 2014 BFN none to freez
Fourth cycle October 30th 28 retrieved, 13 mature and 12 fertilized
PICSI, assisted hatching and fresh sperm from my DH's TESE surgery used
5 FROZEN from a freeze all cycle!
FET completed on DECEMBER 9TH!!!
Beta #1 13dp5dt BFP!! 800
Beta #2 15dp5dt 2100
Beta #3 17dp5dt 3600
First Scan January 5th! Everything looks great! Heart rate of 121!
Second Scan January 20th. Baby Justone13 looks amazing. Heart rate of 175!
Baby Girl is due August 27th
Liv Annmarie born 8/25 7lbs 6oz 21 1/2 inches long
Congratulations! IF brain doesn't go away....it does get better the further along you get.... but I never completely felt at ease until DD was born......and I'm going through the same feelings now. Again, Congratulations & welcome!
Me 35, DH 36 TTC summer 2008 Diagnose me. DOR, DH perfect IUI # 1 6/2010, BFN IUI # 2 8/2010, BFN IVF # 1 10/2010 Canceled poor response IVF 1.2 12/2010 BFP! mc 6 weeks 2 days Mental health break for 10 months IVF # 2 10/2011 BFN IVF # 3 5/2012 BFP! 10 eggs retrieved (best ever) 7 fertilized transferred 3 Beta #1 14dpo - 72, Beta #2 17dpo 145 Beta 3 20dpo 521 First u/s June 15 saw HB 126 bpm missed m/c 7/5/12 10 weeks D&C 7/6/12 IVF#4 ER 9/30 ET 10/3 Beta 10/16 BFFN. IVF #5 final with o/e. ER 1/21 only 1 retrieved, hoping my lonestar is the one. Beta #1 2/6/13 = 209.... please let this be it! Keep growing lonestar! Beta #2 2/8/13 - 586! , Beta #3 2/10/13 = 1898. First u/s perfect little heart beat at 116 bpm. Measure 6 weeks 1 day. EDD 10/14/13 3/4/13 measuring right on track beautiful heartbeat 171 bpm, graduated from RE to OB... bittersweet. PAIF/SAIF always welcome! Its a girl!
Maggie Grace is here! 10/5/13... 8lbs 6 ounces of pure joy!
TTC#2 No birth control since DD was born. Getting ready to jump back in the saddle. Weaning this month. RE appt scheduled 5/8. Here we go again!
IFV# 6. 10/27 6 retrieved 4 mature 3 fertilized. 2 made it to 3dt 10/30. 1"very pretty 8 cell" and 1 6 cell. Beta
11/13. Please stick embies!!!! We love you so much already! 11/12/14 POAS, BFP... beta tomorrow! 11/13 beta #1 924!!! 2nd bet 11/15 1906, one more on 11/17 3rd & final beta 3430. First u/s 12/5, 7w4d, 2 heartbeats,
both measuring right on track....2nd u/s... all is well... both beans measuring right on track... released from RE... first
appointment with MFM 1/5. Looks like this is really happening!
Welcome and congrats on the great ultrasound! I am with PP - IF brain can haunt you through the whole pregnancy. But you are in the right place to talk as soon many of us have the same worries.
Me: 35 DH: 35 - Married 10 years PCOS and MF Two failed rounds IUI in 2010 IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12 FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13 FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14 IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265; 11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571; 12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134) Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15
I am almost 28 weeks and still freak out at every appointment!! Personally, the stress before an appointment never gets better, but the day to day stress has eased up a bit. Infertility convinces you that this can't be real or it just can't go right... But it can! Just try to listen to your doctor and body as much as possible . Infertility brain is the absolute pits!
IF brain sucks!!! I get nervous if I don't throw up or feel nauseous, how stupid is that?! Every appointment there's a part of me that thinks this is where they tell me bad news. It's so not like me to be a pessimist, I've always been so optimistic! I leave every doctor's appointment amazed that things are perfect. It all seems too good to be true after so many years and failures!
I can't use the bathroom at night without a light on because I'm still scared to death I'm just going to start randomly bleeding and something horrible is going to happen. I'm 28 weeks for crying out loud! I am a very optimistic person as well, but dealing with infertility has made me a self-proclaimed realist. Even when the doctors tell me everything is perfectly fine I still prepare myself for the worst. I guess our minds will just be put at ease when the little ones get here
When I went in for my 8 week, my doc asked how I was feeling, & when I told him "nervous" he looked so shocked and asked why. I wonder if it's typical for doctors to not understand IF brain. He's nice enough, but he was certainly not thinking my nerves were typical. I'm going through the same thing of bring scared if I go an hour without me nauseated. My poor husband is nervous too. The other day I sneezed and it was bloody and when I said "there's so much blood" he came running from across the house freaking out, thinking there was something wrong with the baby. But, this has eased up a bit compared to how much of a wreck I was for the first four weeks, and hopefully I'll continue to mellow out if I continue to get good ultrasounds. I'm thinking about getting a Doppler to hear the heartbeat, though I know some people have had a bad experience with them, so I'm not sure.
Re: 8 week ultrasound later today and I'm so nervous
Me 33, DH 37 -- TTC since Jan'12 -- Low AMH (0.78) & endo, SA w/ low motility
IUI's 1-3 = BFN, IVF converted to IUI 4/13 = BFN
IVF 1.2: 8R 6M 4F -- 2 blastocysts frozen, FET 8/15 = BFP!!
Beta #s = 445;1,098; 9,545 -- EDD 5/2 -- Team Pink!
Anyway, I'm really happy to say the ultrasound went well! The doctor saw normal progression of growth (8 weeks 6 days from 6 weeks 1 day in just 2 weeks, but there is a 3 day margin of error) and a strong heart rate (179).
I wish I could say that I'm ecstatic, but really I'm just exhausted and feeling like I've dodged a bullet for now. I guess that's IF brain.
They released me from their care and now I'll go to the "normal" doctor in 2 weeks, which is strange, but I know it's really good. They were all very sweet and I cried (which seems to be all I'm doing today).
Thank you all again!
Me 33, DH 37 -- TTC since Jan'12 -- Low AMH (0.78) & endo, SA w/ low motility
IUI's 1-3 = BFN, IVF converted to IUI 4/13 = BFN
IVF 1.2: 8R 6M 4F -- 2 blastocysts frozen, FET 8/15 = BFP!!
Beta #s = 445;1,098; 9,545 -- EDD 5/2 -- Team Pink!
TTC summer 2008
Diagnose me. DOR, DH perfect
IUI # 1 6/2010, BFN
IUI # 2 8/2010, BFN
IVF # 1 10/2010 Canceled poor response
IVF 1.2 12/2010 BFP! mc 6 weeks 2 days
Mental health break for 10 months
IVF # 2 10/2011 BFN
IVF # 3 5/2012 BFP! 10 eggs retrieved (best ever)
7 fertilized transferred 3
Beta #1 14dpo - 72, Beta #2 17dpo 145 Beta 3 20dpo 521
First u/s June 15 saw HB 126 bpm missed m/c 7/5/12 10 weeks D&C 7/6/12
IVF#4 ER 9/30 ET 10/3 Beta 10/16 BFFN. IVF #5 final with o/e. ER 1/21 only 1 retrieved, hoping my lonestar is the one. Beta #1 2/6/13 = 209.... please let this be it! Keep growing lonestar! Beta #2 2/8/13 - 586! , Beta #3 2/10/13 = 1898. First u/s perfect little heart beat at 116 bpm. Measure 6 weeks 1 day. EDD 10/14/13
3/4/13 measuring right on track beautiful heartbeat 171 bpm, graduated from RE to OB... bittersweet.
PAIF/SAIF always welcome! Its a girl!
TTC#2 No birth control since DD was born. Getting ready to jump back in the saddle. Weaning this month. RE
appt scheduled 5/8. Here we go again!
11/13 beta #1 924!!! 2nd bet 11/15 1906, one more on 11/17 3rd & final beta 3430. First u/s 12/5, 7w4d, 2 heartbeats,
PCOS and MF
Two failed rounds IUI in 2010
IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12
FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13
FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14
IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265;
11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571;
12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134)
Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15
It all seems too good to be true after so many years and failures!