don't know what to do...

court476

I'm almost 28 weeks pregnant, and I just came from my doctors appointment. Because of a misunderstanding about the glucose test she has decided that its in both our best interests for her not to be my doctor anymore... I have no idea what to do and am really freaking out right now. I'm about 12 weeks from delivery what doctor is gonna want to work with me? And my insurance won't pick up another doctor this late in the game. I have no idea what to do.

cherita1219

I had to change doctors at 28 weeks as well due to insurance issues an trust me it was stressful. I did a lot of calling around and I found someone that would take me on so late in my pregnancy. Just call around and explain exactly what happened and someone will take you on. Trust me, I did the same thing. I got a bunch of no's but I did not give up. Your insurance should not be an issue though, did you let them know what was going on?! What insurance are you with?

gin112082

I'm switching doctors too and I'll be 31 weeks on Monday... I haven't liked my doctor since the beginning and something with my glucose test as well made me change

court476

cherita1219 said:

I had to change doctors at 28 weeks as well due to insurance issues an trust me it was stressful. I did a lot of calling around and I found someone that would take me on so late in my pregnancy. Just call around and explain exactly what happened and someone will take you on. Trust me, I did the same thing. I got a bunch of no's but I did not give up. Your insurance should not be an issue though, did you let them know what was going on?! What insurance are you with?

No I haven't told my insurance yet. I was just told this. I'm trying not to freak out too much and just let it sink in. Plus it's Friday afternoon and then the weekend. I'm gonna have to wait till Monday to do anything anyway. And I have tricare.

court476

We have 4 hospitals where I'm from. One doesn't even have a labor and delivery wing, one doesn't take my insurance, the other one is the training/people without insurance hospital. And then the hospital that my was doctor is attached to. So basically I'm screwed....

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khan08

I am switching doctors at 32 wks. I am currently 29 weeks today. You'll be fine. Don't stress about it

tigerlily25

I switched doctors this week as well. A lot of people do it. It's better than being in an uncomfortable situation.

 

maplebar

court476 said:

We have 4 hospitals where I'm from. One doesn't even have a labor and delivery wing, one doesn't take my insurance, the other one is the training/people without insurance hospital. And then the hospital that my was doctor is attached to. So basically I'm screwed....

And there's not another doctor at that hospital? She couldn't refer you to another OB or MW? Are you high risk? I'm still curious about the misunderstanding.

cherita1219

court476 said:

cherita1219 said:

I had to change doctors at 28 weeks as well due to insurance issues an trust me it was stressful. I did a lot of calling around and I found someone that would take me on so late in my pregnancy. Just call around and explain exactly what happened and someone will take you on. Trust me, I did the same thing. I got a bunch of no's but I did not give up. Your insurance should not be an issue though, did you let them know what was going on?! What insurance are you with?

No I haven't told my insurance yet. I was just told this. I'm trying not to freak out too much and just let it sink in. Plus it's Friday afternoon and then the weekend. I'm gonna have to wait till Monday to do anything anyway. And I have tricare.

If I were you I would call your insurance company and ask them to find you a doctor that is covered under your policy. I was calling doctors all around with no luck so I called my insurance company (Aetna) and they found a doctor that was taking new patients and I scheduled the appointment. It's very easy for someone to say don't stress about it BUT I was where you are a few weeks ago. I was a complete wreck, crying and stressing over it. It's different if it's your choice to change but when you have no control over it makes it so much worst. I was literally told the day of my appointment that my dr could no longer see me. It sucks BUT it will be okay. Relax!

marybeth05

There have to be other doctors that deliver at that hospital besides her, right?
I'm also curious what was the misunderstanding that has her dropping you as a patient?

court476

Yeah other doctors do practice in that hospital. Before I left she had someone in her star print out all the doctors I. That area that take that insurance at that hospital.
The misunderstanding was about the glucose test and her staff.
Its been a very stressful day. It has been a very stressful day but I'm trying not to let it get me down.

mayfateleadyou

court476 said:

cherita1219 said:

I had to change doctors at 28 weeks as well due to insurance issues an trust me it was stressful. I did a lot of calling around and I found someone that would take me on so late in my pregnancy. Just call around and explain exactly what happened and someone will take you on. Trust me, I did the same thing. I got a bunch of no's but I did not give up. Your insurance should not be an issue though, did you let them know what was going on?! What insurance are you with?

No I haven't told my insurance yet. I was just told this. I'm trying not to freak out too much and just let it sink in. Plus it's Friday afternoon and then the weekend. I'm gonna have to wait till Monday to do anything anyway. And I have tricare.

I have tricare also. All you need to do is get your PCM to make a new referral for whoever you choose from the list of available doctors. You may not get one as close (mine is 30 minutes away and that interstate driving) but you should be to get a referral.

angelfish628

Try not to stress. Use this weekend to research other doctors and ask your friends and family for their advice/recommendations. What type of misunderstanding was this?

court476

mayfateleadyou said:

court476 said:

cherita1219 said:

I had to change doctors at 28 weeks as well due to insurance issues an trust me it was stressful. I did a lot of calling around and I found someone that would take me on so late in my pregnancy. Just call around and explain exactly what happened and someone will take you on. Trust me, I did the same thing. I got a bunch of no's but I did not give up. Your insurance should not be an issue though, did you let them know what was going on?! What insurance are you with?

No I haven't told my insurance yet. I was just told this. I'm trying not to freak out too much and just let it sink in. Plus it's Friday afternoon and then the weekend. I'm gonna have to wait till Monday to do anything anyway. And I have tricare.

I have tricare also. All you need to do is get your PCM to make a new referral for whoever you choose from the list of available doctors. You may not get one as close (mine is 30 minutes away and that interstate driving) but you should be to get a referral.

I have tricare select. So I don't even need a referral for it. I think you do for tricare prim though. But I'm still gonna call them Monday and tell them what's up and make sure.

court476

The misunderstanding: I had some questions about the glucose test that I had for her. But the staff told me she didn't take phone calls. Which I understand. She also did not return phone calls unless it was an emergency. I completely understand that too. But what I don't get is that they would not schedule me an appointment before that so I could talk to her. Cause the glucose test is just a nurse visit. I wouldn't see the doctor. So I refused the test because of this. Then the staff god rude because they all wanted to know why. So I told them that I'd been trying to see the doctor for a month and y'all refused to let me.
So I finally saw her today and she said it was just too much for her to take and said she wouldnt work with me.
All I wanted to do was schedule and appointment 5-10 mins long before the test to answer questions about it.

Ifeellikeamammal

That's not a misunderstanding, that's a doctor who isn't providing good care. It may be stressful now, but you'll be better in the long run!

Jaysway08

I wasn't there, but a doctor needs a good reason to fire a patient, both ethically and legally. It sounds like the situation got very heated. Office staff can make a huge difference in the quality of your experience, and if there was an explosive interaction then it's best to just move on. You will probably do better with a different practice at this point. Your insurance company can help you find someone.

Chocolate111

What kind of question could you have had about that test that a nurse could not answer for you?? They are usually pretty knowledgeable as well....

NagaWater

I'm sorry but I just can't help but feel there is a whole lot more to the story than you would like for us to know.
I really can't see your doctor firing you because you wanted to ask them questions.

sks306

NagaWater said:

I'm sorry but I just can't help but feel there is a whole lot more to the story than you would like for us to know.
I really can't see your doctor firing you because you wanted to ask them questions.

Something seems odd here to me too. I have never known a doctor not willig to answer questions, especially an OB. First day of class should be "Can you handle hormonal women with high anxiety? No? Pick another field."
As far as picking another OB, many doctors will accept you even later than you are. I thought it was crazy for my changing OBs at 28 weeks, but it was for very different reasons. So, get a referral if you need one, find another Dr, and the transition should be an easy one.

ihatetomatoes

At 30 weeks I have to change hospitals, not just docs, but a new town/city and hospital as the one I was going to no longer delivers babies. No biggie, on the big day someone will be helping me bring this LO safely into the world. It's not really something to panic over....unless you manage to piss off your next OB too. Maybe take chocolates to your first appt with them and don't be a demanding wench. Works for me so far.

kinseykinz

Okay, whether or not the Doctor was wrong or the patient was, really doesn't matter. 

OP.  Knowing what you know now, even if the doctor DID take you back, would you really be comfortable delivering with them and their staff?  I mean, if you are having trouble communicating now, how comfortable would you be with voicing concerns/the advice given in the throws of labor when you will likely feel amazingly vulnerable? 

I kinda doubt you'd be comfy.  So, find someone else.  And if you're worried about a gap, go to your family General Practice for now until you find a new doctor/midwife.  Also, WORST case scenario, if you show up to the hospital in labor, someone will deliver your baby.  Seriously, kiddo will come out and someone will assist. 

So use the list your old Doctor's office gave you/call your insurance/talk to your GP about who they recommend and maybe even talk to your friends in the area to find a new doctor.  Explain your situation to the new doctor if needed.

mfouillard

What questions did you have about the glucose test? I understand the doctor not cooperating with you and your needs I just don't get what you needed to know. At the blood clinic where I am from they can answer any questions I would have possibly needed to ask. It's only a drink and quick blood withdrawl.

mfouillard

You shouldn't refuse the glucose test I don't think incase you do hae GD

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