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BFP but second test much lighter :( - Updated for CP

rspalding001rspalding001 member
edited January 2015 in TTC after 35
So I tested on Friday and got a BFP... Not super dark but it was definitely a line. I tested again today however and the line has gotten lighter. It's a squinter now so I'm thinking I'm not pregnant, or if I was then it's going away. I think I'll wait a week and test again but I'm not hopeful.... Sigh.... I well. I'm not really feeling much about it except frustration. Just needed to share.

UPDATE: So I couldn't wait and tested again today thinking that maybe yesterday was a fluke and the test would come back as a strong positive. no such luck, there wasn't even a second line today, just a big fat negative. So I guess it was a chemical pregnancy after all. Im not going to even bother with a Dr. visit because I feel like I know what happened and don't need a Dr to tell me what I already know.. I'm not pregnant. But hopefully AF gets here soon and I can move on to the next cycle. Anyway I just wanted to say thank you ladies for all your kind words and support! Its great having a place like this to talk about whats going on. Thank you!

Re: BFP but second test much lighter :( - Updated for CP

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    I'm sorry @rspalding001.  That sucks.  I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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    I'm so sorry @rspalding001:(

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    I'm sorry. Hoping for the best for you.
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    Can you have betas done? That would give you a definite as to what is going on.
    I had cp last year and got two faint positives then my period started the next day.
    Not sure if I would go by the darkness of the test. A positive is a positive so congrats.
    But I'm sorry you are not feeling positive. I will pray that all turns out well.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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    Sorry. That six.
    TTC #1
    me- 37, DH- 38
    Married 6.28.14, started TTC right away
    BFP Nov 2015, PPROM Feb 2016
    ER #1 May 2017, 15 retrieved, 10 fertilized, 3 day 5.
    ER#2 July 2017, 22 retrieved, 13 fertilized, 6 day 5/6
    9 embryos tested for pgs and pgd.  
    FET #1 9.29.17- 1 embryo-BFN
    FET#2 12.19.17- I embryo-BFP 1/1/18! Happy New Year to me! EDD 9/6/18
    Baby boy born 9.11.18- the love of my life!

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    *sux.
    TTC #1
    me- 37, DH- 38
    Married 6.28.14, started TTC right away
    BFP Nov 2015, PPROM Feb 2016
    ER #1 May 2017, 15 retrieved, 10 fertilized, 3 day 5.
    ER#2 July 2017, 22 retrieved, 13 fertilized, 6 day 5/6
    9 embryos tested for pgs and pgd.  
    FET #1 9.29.17- 1 embryo-BFN
    FET#2 12.19.17- I embryo-BFP 1/1/18! Happy New Year to me! EDD 9/6/18
    Baby boy born 9.11.18- the love of my life!

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    @rspalding001 I am with @hooligans4 can you have a beta done? I'm sorry for the stress this is causing and hope it turns out well for you. Many prayers for you
    **Losses Mentioned**
    Me 41, DH 38 
    TTC #1 since 9/2014 AMH 3.68, FSH 6.6
    IUI#1 12-02-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 12-17-2015 beta 1=72, beta 2=64, beta 3=10 MC 12-20-14 
    IUI#2 01-08-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 01-23-2015 beta 1=151, beta 2=450, beta 3=6524, beta 4= 29380 u/s at 7w5d baby with heartbeat measuring 6w2d. u/s 2-24 gestational sac only, beta 59400 MC 2-24-15 @ 8w6d D&C 2-27-15. Pathology results 47XX +20

    Diagnosis AMA and compound heterozygous MTHFR
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    @dukegirlsc‌ @hooligans4‌ I could go to the dr and might if another week goes by with no period and if I'm still getting a faint positive. But I guess I'm just in the wait and see mood for this week. I hope it works out but don't want to get my hopes up. I'll definitely let you all know if things take a turn for the better ;)
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    I also wouldn't worry to much about the strength of the line.  Each test will be different.  As everyone said, a Beta is your only true way to know.  FX, I hope everything turns out OK and sorry you are stressed with this. 
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    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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    I'm sorry you're going through this. I just had a cp last month, so I know how much it sucks. I hope it turns around for you.
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    @rspalding001‌ did you try the weeks test from CB? Maybe that can help...
    **Losses Mentioned**
    Me 41, DH 38 
    TTC #1 since 9/2014 AMH 3.68, FSH 6.6
    IUI#1 12-02-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 12-17-2015 beta 1=72, beta 2=64, beta 3=10 MC 12-20-14 
    IUI#2 01-08-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 01-23-2015 beta 1=151, beta 2=450, beta 3=6524, beta 4= 29380 u/s at 7w5d baby with heartbeat measuring 6w2d. u/s 2-24 gestational sac only, beta 59400 MC 2-24-15 @ 8w6d D&C 2-27-15. Pathology results 47XX +20

    Diagnosis AMA and compound heterozygous MTHFR
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    @dukegirlsc what is the weeks test?
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    It is the clear blue easy weeks test, it tells you if you are pregnant and how many weeks you are. From my research the thresholds for the hcG are 1-2  25-200ml, 2-3 200- 2,000 hcg and 3+  2,000. 
    **Losses Mentioned**
    Me 41, DH 38 
    TTC #1 since 9/2014 AMH 3.68, FSH 6.6
    IUI#1 12-02-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 12-17-2015 beta 1=72, beta 2=64, beta 3=10 MC 12-20-14 
    IUI#2 01-08-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 01-23-2015 beta 1=151, beta 2=450, beta 3=6524, beta 4= 29380 u/s at 7w5d baby with heartbeat measuring 6w2d. u/s 2-24 gestational sac only, beta 59400 MC 2-24-15 @ 8w6d D&C 2-27-15. Pathology results 47XX +20

    Diagnosis AMA and compound heterozygous MTHFR
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    Hugs to you.
    Hope your period comes soon. Cp suck.
    I saw my doctor for my yearly about a week after my cp and there is nothing to be done. They just did another pregnancy test to make sure it was still negative.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

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    All welcome

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    I'm sorry @rspalding001‌. I had a chemical pregnancy last month. It sucks. Hang in there.
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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    Very disappointing and frustrating. It sucks to get a line, feel elated about your BFP, and then 24 hours later har your hopes dashed. Hang in there.
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    (((((Hugs))))))) sorry, hang in there
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    rspalding001 I'm so sorry, a CP is like the worst kind of tease. I hope that AF comes soon so you can try again. Hugs for you!
    **Losses Mentioned**
    Me 41, DH 38 
    TTC #1 since 9/2014 AMH 3.68, FSH 6.6
    IUI#1 12-02-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 12-17-2015 beta 1=72, beta 2=64, beta 3=10 MC 12-20-14 
    IUI#2 01-08-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 01-23-2015 beta 1=151, beta 2=450, beta 3=6524, beta 4= 29380 u/s at 7w5d baby with heartbeat measuring 6w2d. u/s 2-24 gestational sac only, beta 59400 MC 2-24-15 @ 8w6d D&C 2-27-15. Pathology results 47XX +20

    Diagnosis AMA and compound heterozygous MTHFR
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    Im sorry.....that sucks! (((hugs)))
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    Me 38   DH 34
    married 05-21-11 
    started TTC right away






    BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14 
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    I'm so sorry, I can imagine how you're feeling right now. ((hugs))
    Me: 37  DH:39
    TTC #1 Since May 2014
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