So this is my first pregnancy as I've mentioned the few times I've posted, these emotional hormones are really starting to get to me and my anxiety is through the roof . Sorry ahed of time if anything is tmi.. But me and my fiancé both work full time jobs and come home around dinner time we eat together and then usually watch some tv, play on our phones , etc . But lately I've just felt so distant .. Like we don't cuddle , we haven't had sex in almost a week and the last time we tried he was too drunk and it just wasn't even worth it to try . It's just being emotional and trying to get used to all these changes going on with my new body and not feeling as sexy as before im trying so hard to just not let my mind get the best of me and it's hard . It is really hard. I don't feel comfortable or sexy at all and I'm trying here .. The whole first trimester I was sick and he complained all the time that I didn't love him and he didn't feel happy because I always had an excuse and now I'm finally feeling better and he's tired all the time ? I guess I just wish he was atleast trying to make me feel sexy or wanted .
I know I'm probably over thinking this whole thing but I couldn't help but vent on here.
Re: Just need to vent ..
feel better and everything will be fine
The ladies above have some good suggestions.
I feel ya though, my boyfriend hasn't told me he loves me in two weeks and it's bothering me way more than it should.
And my sex drive is way higher than his, so I'm sure he's getting irritated with me humping his leg all the time, so that makes me feel worse.
Ah, pregnancy.
DS born 9/3/13; DD born 7/22/15; LO due 5/28/18
FS (age 5) and FD (age 2) to become AS/AD very soon!