April 2014 Moms

Chef, nanny, or maid

zazu13zazu13 member
edited January 2015 in April 2014 Moms
Saw this discussion on facebook, and I had a really hard time choosing. If you could have a maid, chef or nanny right now which would you choose?

Age: 35 TTC since 2005, MFI & DOR 

IVF #1 Sep '11 - canceled poor response

 IVF #2 Nov '11  8R/8M/4F 3dt x2 - chemical

IVF #3 April '12  11R/6M/4F 3dt x2 - m/c

FET #1 Aug 2012  3dt x2 - BFN

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 IVF #4 Jan '13 BFN 11R/6M/6F 5dt x2 - BFN

 IVF #5 July '13 16R/10M/10F 5dt x2 + 1 frostie

9dp5dt Beta 1 = 344!! 16dp5dt. Beta 2 = 4822 7wk u/s= 2 heartbeats!

Twin girls! 3/6/14

 

Chef, nanny, or maid 166 votes

maid
67% 112 votes
chef
17% 29 votes
nanny
15% 25 votes
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Re: Chef, nanny, or maid

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  • No doubt about it- a maid. I like to cook, love Blaire's daycare, but I despise cleaning and the lack of DHs help.
  • A maid would save me so much time!
  • Maid hands down!
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  • I like the way you think @dani+california‌. I voted nanny, too because I don't mind cooking or cleaning, but always have my hands too full to do much of it.

    Age: 35 TTC since 2005, MFI & DOR 

    IVF #1 Sep '11 - canceled poor response

     IVF #2 Nov '11  8R/8M/4F 3dt x2 - chemical

    IVF #3 April '12  11R/6M/4F 3dt x2 - m/c

    FET #1 Aug 2012  3dt x2 - BFN

    **new RE**

     IVF #4 Jan '13 BFN 11R/6M/6F 5dt x2 - BFN

     IVF #5 July '13 16R/10M/10F 5dt x2 + 1 frostie

    9dp5dt Beta 1 = 344!! 16dp5dt. Beta 2 = 4822 7wk u/s= 2 heartbeats!

    Twin girls! 3/6/14

     

  • Twirple said:

    I have a hard enough time having someone else take care of my kids when they are at daycare, so I would not want a Nanny, and I actually enjoy cooking, so, maid, definitely a maid.

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  • We have a cleaning lady come twice a month, which is great, but I spend 50-75% of my day in the kitchen. I'd love a chef. Plus, we have a ton of food restrictions for DS and DH, so finding meals that everyone can eat is a PITA.
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  • Maid. We split cooking and baby care enough not to mind, fuck using my "free time" to clean.
  • Maid all the way. Cooking is fun, and DH can watch A-game when I need a break, but I loathe cleaning. x.x
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  • I voted maid as well. It's the one area where I consistently fall short. I vacuumed today for the first time since NYE. I could make a new cat out of all the hair I picked up. I've already proposed getting a cleaning service to DH when I go back to work.
  • Chef all the way. I don't mind cleaning and DD won't leave my side so no point in a nanny. I would like someone who just cooks be healthy well balanced meals alllll the time. I'm constantly eating microwaveable meals.
  • Maid no contest. I am a terrible housekeeper, so I could really use the help!

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  • I said maid because I have a cleaning lady and love her. My DH is a fabulous cook. And I love the daycare & grandparents for my girls when they have to be there, but when I'm home I want all the babies.
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  • thomas930thomas930 member
    edited January 2015
    Someone come clean my house!!!
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  • Chef. I like cleaning and organizing so no thanks on the maid. I stay at home anyway so I may as well watch the kids myself. It's about 50/50 whether I enjoy cooking or not, but I love good food, so chef it is.
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  • There are maids that make meals do meal orep...just saying...
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