Do you enjoy being pregnant?

JJBoden

Some ladies love it. My mom did. I am certainly not one of those people who likes being pregnant. I'm not a fan at all. End result is nice but dang the toll it takes on my body is brutal. Anyway, are you in the enjoy being pregnant camp or not so much?

DixieNormous330

I enjoyed my pregnancy with PF more. This one is harder. Baby is differently positioned and nailing my bladder frequently, whereas PF didn't. It's also hard because I have PF and her special needs to contend with and H is working out of state so much.

It's a very different experience. I don't hate it but I'm not loving it the way I did the first time.

Suesse2009

I hate being pregnant. It's because of having severe hyperemesis though. This is my second and will be having a tubal after my c section. I just can't do it again which makes me sad. We had wanted more kids. But there are other ways to grow our family which we will discuss in a few years if we still feel we want more kids.

Alicia_R1

Not at all.  I knew going into it that pregnancy wouldn't be something I enjoyed, but we wanted to start a family so it is what it is.  Granted there are days where I say that I really wish I would have had access to an artificial womb to incubate this little one.  

I know I won't do it again ever which makes DH sad, but if he had to go through it, he wouldn't do it again either. 

pistachio&blush

No, I am miserable. But I do love it whenever I feel him kick or move around. Or, see him on the ultrasounds. Does that makes sense?

JJBoden

@DixieNormous330‌ I sympathize with you on H working out of state. I have two kids alone to deal with along with pregnancy. Let's just say I'm not the most patient or chipper all the time. Just exhausted. Kinda envious over those with ah nearby to run to the store, rub their feet or just watch the kids to bathe alone! Edit: typo

Duffgurl

With my first pregnancy it was bliss and I loved every minute. This pregnancy has been a bit rough but overall I actually love it. I love seeing my belly grow. Seeing and feeling the movement of our LO. I guess the good outweighs the bad for me.

DixieNormous330

JJBoden said:

@DixieNormous330‌ I sympathize with you on H working out of state. I have two kids alone to deal with along with pregnancy. Let's just say I'm not the most patient or chipper all the time. Just exhausted. Kinda envious over those with ah nearby to run to the store, rub their feet, just watch the kids to bathe alone!

Seriously. This week is especially sucky. PF's birthday party is on Saturday and so I'm left to do all of the last minute things. Grrrr

JJBoden

@DixieNormous330‌ ... Sorry mama. Thinking of you! Hope the last minute prep goes smoother than you expect. I'm at the point my kids get a cake from Sam's and party supplies from the $1 store.. Gave up on all that Pinterest kinda crap. Ha

alexis95

I honestly kind of like being pregnant. I wouldn't go so far as to say I love it since like swoon said, I can't do anything for myself. And I really miss my regular runs and yoga workouts. It's just not the same when my lungs are all squished up and there's a belly in the way! But, I've had a ridiculously easy pregnancy compared to lots of women. I would do this whole thing again in a heart beat!

Suesse2009

pistachio&blush said:

No, I am miserable. But I do love it whenever I feel him kick or move around. Or, see him on the ultrasounds. Does that makes sense?

It makes complete sense to me. You love the end product but the process is what sucks.

Murran131

I didn't enjoy it much during the first trimester, and a few weeks into the second, when I was really sick and off food. Since then, it's actually been pretty great! I've had energy and can usually eat whatever I want to. Plus I've loved feeling this little dude moving around all the time. That helps me feel like it's a lot more real. We'll see how the third trimester goes, though I'm already experiencing plenty of aches and pains!

KLBell17

I don't love it and don't hate it. I've had a relatively easy pregnancy so I am super thankful for that. But being the control freak that I am it's a little hard to let some new being take over!! I'm excited to be a mom and can't wait to meet her though, so it's all worth it.

JJBoden

RHoPA1109 said:

Also, I feel like now that I was just getting used to the relative uneventfulness of 2nd tri, 3rd tri is on its way and about to fuck shit up.

Hate to say it but... You're spot on. Third trimester sucks!!!! Acid reflux, pains, discomfort, etc. in 2nd trimester have nothing on what third trimester is like! Ugh

kjuryfl

Very much so. I have incredibly easy and complication free pregnancies (aside from my second that ended in a miscarriage). My opinion would be very different if I have harder pregnancies.

wholebunches101212

I love it and hate it at the same time. I've had morning sickness this whole time and I hate that I'm constantly uncomfortable. But I love feeling the baby move and kick (even though it makes me nauseous sometimes) obviously I'm just excited for the end result of all of this.

tirola

I was just talking about this with my mom a few days ago. She was telling me how much she enjoyed every minute of all 4 of her pregnancies and I was telling her she's insane

I haven't had tons of complications or a difficult time so far, I'm just not enjoying it. I think a lot of mine is just because of everything else going on right now. My bf and I are dealing with a custody case regarding his 2 year old daughter. She has also been recently diagnosed with cerebral palsy so I've been dealing with therapies, dr appointments, etc. My mom is having some major health issues but lives several hours away so I can't be there for her.

Between the stress and the normal aches and pains related to pregnancy, I am not particularly enjoying it. I do have good days and feeling the baby move or seeing her on an ultrasound tends to remind me that this will all be worth it in the end. I have already told bf that I don't think I can handle doing this a second time though!

twinklepits

I absolutely love it. Morning sickness and passing out, as rough as it can be, I'd happily do it a million times. We struggled to conceive so maybe that's contributing to why I'm loving the whole pregnancy experience. It's been great for me. I feel bad that a lot of ladies have had it so rough.

jobotrobot

I'm enjoying it for the most part. I didn't have any sickness or aversions so that was nice. I had a hard time in that funny in between stage of looking bloated vs bump. I don't love it or feel like I'm filled with squee over it though. I describe the pregnancy as uneventful

Scarlettg

Meh, I don't love it or hate it.  I love feeling the baby move and seeing him/her on the sonogram.  I like watching my belly grow.  I love the feeling of excitement.  I don't like not being able to sleep for a solid 8 hours because of crazy dreams, heartburn, and an overactive bladder.  I don't like not being able to do things for myself.  I don't like other people who feel like they can judge my entire life just because I'm pregnant.  And I've suffered losses in the past that added to both the excitement and the anxiety for this one.  

This pregnancy has been pretty damn easy overall, especially in light of others' misfortunes.  I can't wait to hold my little one, but I also can't wait to drink a glass (or 12) of wine.  So there you go.

thing3ontheway

I love being pregnant. Don't get me
Wrong there are some rough days but overall yes I love it, especially second tri and on!

hillbillywife

I really really loved it with my first. This pregnancy is really different than my first one though. I don't hate it but it's not nearly as fun as the first one was.

I'm kind of sad for you ladies who really hate it and have a tough time. I can definitely give sympathy for not loving it with all the MS and hard things. You just want everyone to love it because it's something that you feel like you should love. It'll be over before we know it though, so keep hanging in there!

marybeth05

Yep, totally love it! There are parts that stink but overall I've been really lucky with all 3 of my pregnancies and have had enjoyable experiences.

TheWindCriesMary

I'm very surprised at how much I'm enjoying this. There's a lot of pros and cons physically, but I keep thinking how fast time is going and this will be over before I know it, and that helps me enjoy it much more. Hope that makes sense.
*Edited because I hit post too soon

PinkDahLia44

Love it. Love the baby kicks and the way I look pregnant. I have been blessed with easy pregnancies (so far) though, so I'm biased.

I'm enjoying this one more than my last bc I was so nervous after a previous loss. I'm more relaxed and distracted this time, so I'm enjoying myself in the moments I have time to think about it.

Stephmichellep

I feel like I should be loving it b/c I've had it way easy compared to others. I hate peeing every 20 min though and I don't like the discomfort that comes with bending and stretching.

One thing I am really enjoying that I wasn't expecting? My hair no longer gets greasy after a day. I have thin hair, so it would always need to be washed at least every other day or it just looked clumpy and gross. Now I can go 4 days without washing it (I still shower obviously.. just don't always wash my hair) and it looks absolutely fine pulled up in a pony tail or bun. This has only been the last month or so and I'm really going to miss that! Nothing else has really changed in my lifestyle... so I'm writing it off as a pregnancy thing. 

taahira

This pregnancy has taken a toll on my body. My previous pregnancies were pretty good, I really didn't have to many symptoms or complaints till a few weeks before delivery. This little guy has given me every symptom under the sun. I was only saying to my sister yesterday. He takes everything from me, I constantly feel like I'm running on reserve. Then on the other hand, it took so long to concieve and be blessed with a sticky baby, I'll take it all that is coming to me. I'm just so happy we got this far at times it didn't look like we would. The daily kicks, and ultrasounds makes all the sickness, constipation, aches and pains worth it!

smilesallaround

So far, I absolutely love being pregnant! I have moments that aren't the best, but then he kicks and I forget about the bad moments.

I have been very blessed this pregnancy. The only bad symptom I have had so far is back pain. In the early months it would keep me from walking, but it is now much better.

Adolphkm

I am loving it, but I am a first time mom so I have no idea what to expect in the 3rd trimester. As of right now though, it has been extremely pleasant and I love feeling those baby kicks in my belly.

starshollow

I am generally not a fan. I am glad knowing this is my last time.

I generally feel ok, but the exhaustion is hard.  Plus the uncomfortable sleep. And the heartburn.  Plus I really really want to enjoy a nice bottle of wine.

cwiceangel

I've had a really easy pregnancy for the most part. So I guess in that sense sure. But now that he's moving around a lot it's not very comfy and kinda freaks me out. @tupelohoneybee‌ I'm right there with you.

jc_twomamas

I actually am enjoying it. The first tri was rough but even with that I'm liking being pregnant. Don't get me wrong, I've had my moment of "OMG I still have 3 1/2 more months of this!" But overall, I'm a happy camper.

JJBoden

The only part of the baby moving that can annoy me is when baby get the hick ups. Hasn't happened yet with this one but my last one got them all the time.. Pretty annoying.. Ok and kicking my bladder wasn't much fun either. So far this little guy hasn't bothered me with his movements.

catlover790

I am really enjoying it so far! I still have mild morning sickness and some back pain (always very sharp and I think it's a nerve) but even with those symptoms I still am really loving it!


I like feeling the baby move and I like how I look. I'm sure there will be parts of third tri that I won't like but overall I'd say yes.

sagehens47

The only thing I like is the attention and preferential treatment. It's probably the only time in my like I'll be able to milk something like this.
Otherwise, April can't come soon enough.

ally3242

I'm starting to dislike pregnancy. The aches and pains are getting worse by the day, I'm starting to move slowly and it's hard to get my socks and shoes on. This is the exact same time I was totally "over it" last time too. Only 11 weeks and some change left....

bride2bnVA

I am really not sure b/c I don't feel that different. I enjoy feeling him move around in there and so far I have had an easy pregnancy...so I guess you could say I like being pregnant. But ask me again in about 2 months and I may not have the same answer.

wonderkay

Swoon13 said:

Strangely, yes. I'll admit I've had an easier pregnancy than a lot of ladies though. Although, the severe pain with my SPD has really made me want to get this kid out of me.

I'm expecting my optimism and easy-going nature to be threatened when 3rd Tri comes to stay (next week for me, yikes)!

I HATE being unable to lift and move like normal. That drives me insane. I'm just not the kind of person to ask for help with things like picking things up, moving things, climbing ladders, etc. Sp pregnancy has been a lesson in asking for help, for me.

This, exactly. This is my first time to experience pregnancy and I have been very blessed to have it much easier than other women. I am enjoying feeling the kicks and punches thrown. But it is going to be so hard to ask for help later. I've already been yelled at for it at work.

csmith121011

Not a fan at all. I have been sick since day one, completely exhausted and have NONE of the pregnancy positives (nice hair, skin, boobs---nope not here!). This will be our only child for sure.

Thankfully all is well with the baby so that is a major plus!

lildropofheavn23

I love being pregnant. It's such a beautiful and amazing experience.

borgie05

Not loving it. We had a loss before this one, so I worry about everything which is a pain. I even had a doctor at the ER call me neurotic (oops!). I wish that my baby moved more like a crazy one! I feel like he hasn't been moving enough... adding more to my worry of course. Each time I think about going in to get him checked out, he moves some. Then stops again for the longest time. I hope he's like his dad and just really loves to sleep. Dr's appointment on Wednesday, keeping fingers crossed.