Parenting after a Loss
ksyknelvr73
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BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
LO has me totally shaken up - WWYD
ksyknelvr73
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The tl;dr version of this is that I think DS2 (7 mos) stopped breathing in his sleep tonight, and I don't know if I should call his pedi or not, or what they could even do.
So I have the angel care monitor that we used with DS1 and we are using with DS2 now. We got maybe 2-3 false alarms in almost two years of using it with DS1, so I trust it pretty well. I always check on both boys before I go to bed. When I checked on DS2 around 10:30, he was laying on his belly kind of toward the top left of the crib. I left him laying that way b/c he can roll both ways, and every time I put him down on his back he immediately rolls over. We have nothing in the crib whatsoever other than him and the mattress.
Fast forward to about 2:15 and the alarm on the monitor goes off. It woke DH and I from our sleep and we ran into his room. In that matter of time, it stopped going off. When we get in there, he is laying in literally the exact same position he was when I checked on him 4ish hours earlier, he hadn't moved one bit.
I don't feel like this was a false alarm and I truly believe he stopped breathing. I actually woke him up, changed him and got him a bottle b/c I thought it might help me feel better that he was okay. He is acting completely normal and he is actually back in his crib as I type but I am awake and still worried sick.
What do I do? Do I call the pedi and tell them about this? How do I even get through tonight? I have never experienced this before and I don't have a clue what to do.
So I have the angel care monitor that we used with DS1 and we are using with DS2 now. We got maybe 2-3 false alarms in almost two years of using it with DS1, so I trust it pretty well. I always check on both boys before I go to bed. When I checked on DS2 around 10:30, he was laying on his belly kind of toward the top left of the crib. I left him laying that way b/c he can roll both ways, and every time I put him down on his back he immediately rolls over. We have nothing in the crib whatsoever other than him and the mattress.
Fast forward to about 2:15 and the alarm on the monitor goes off. It woke DH and I from our sleep and we ran into his room. In that matter of time, it stopped going off. When we get in there, he is laying in literally the exact same position he was when I checked on him 4ish hours earlier, he hadn't moved one bit.
I don't feel like this was a false alarm and I truly believe he stopped breathing. I actually woke him up, changed him and got him a bottle b/c I thought it might help me feel better that he was okay. He is acting completely normal and he is actually back in his crib as I type but I am awake and still worried sick.
What do I do? Do I call the pedi and tell them about this? How do I even get through tonight? I have never experienced this before and I don't have a clue what to do.
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
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Re: LO has me totally shaken up - WWYD
I can't imagine how scary this is for you. I am one who always proceeds with caution. It never hurts to call the pedi about anything to get advice and help you through these times.
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Does he have reflux? I just ask because DD had it really bad and it caused her to stop breathing a couple of times. It was so scary but she hasn't done it in quite a while.
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
He doesn't move much at all unless he is awake and trying to wake us up, which he definitely wasn't doing. That's why it scared me so much, he was still asleep even through the alarm going off.
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
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