Age: 35 TTC since 2005, MFI & DOR
IVF #1 Sep '11 - canceled poor response
IVF #2 Nov '11 8R/8M/4F 3dt x2 - chemical
IVF #3 April '12 11R/6M/4F 3dt x2 - m/c
FET #1 Aug 2012 3dt x2 - BFN
**new RE**
IVF #4 Jan '13 BFN 11R/6M/6F 5dt x2 - BFN
IVF #5 July '13 16R/10M/10F 5dt x2 + 1 frostie
9dp5dt Beta 1 = 344!! 16dp5dt. Beta 2 = 4822 7wk u/s= 2 heartbeats!
Twin girls! 3/6/14
Re: Do you keep babies up past bedtime? (And do you regret it?)
I'm in the flexible sleep camp but I only have one. For Christmas LO had to be flexible and she did fine. She napped in the car while we drove to and from different things. I tried to get her to nap more since I knew she was going to have to be up later than normal which didn't always work. If she started getting fussy/eye rubbing we said "goodnight" and left. I could tell that by night 3 the unpredictability was taking a toll. It did not help we were staying in a hotel. She's definitely happy to be home and back on her schedule.
Also I'm side-eyeing your ILs for stopping by after bedtime and being surprised that the twins are asleep. Do they think you're lying about the twins bedtime and are just trying to bail on family events early?
Which pisses me off. Duh, you know we have a baby. Could you not bump up dinner time a bit so we don't end up with a monster overnight? Of course it only inconveniences me so what's the big deal?! [-(
ETA: I don't expect the world to change to accommodate my family's needs. But I do expect close family to be a bit more cognizant of it, and not be shocked that I'm rushing to get home in time for bed (which usually means an hour+ late).
BFP: 7/5/10 EDD: 3/13/11 Miscarriage 8/1/10 at 8 weeks
BFP: 10/30/10 EDD: 7/7/11 Born 7/11//11 7lb12oz, 20 in.
BFP: 7/30/13 EDD: 4/9/14 Born right on time on his due date! 8lb10oz, 21.5 in.
Awesome prophetic fortune cookie: Love is a present that can be given every single day you live
DD's naps are screwy sometimes, because we have to be on the go with my older DS, but bedtime is sacred. The only exception was Christmas Eve which is a huge gathering of my entire family at my dad's house. We left earlier than normal but it was still about an hour past bedtime.
This LO does not fall asleep in the car so keeping her out late and letting her pass out on the ride home does not happen. She was pitching a fit by the time we got to the house.
ETA: For naps, her morning one I try to stay home for, but the rest of the day she naps on the go since her other naps are inconsistent anyways.
With the possible exception of the equator, everything begins somewhere. - C.S.Lewis
I think it'll be easier to be flexible when they're older. My DSS (8) has a very firm bedtime, but does fine when we're out/up past his bedtime.
BFP: 7/5/10 EDD: 3/13/11 Miscarriage 8/1/10 at 8 weeks
BFP: 10/30/10 EDD: 7/7/11 Born 7/11//11 7lb12oz, 20 in.
BFP: 7/30/13 EDD: 4/9/14 Born right on time on his due date! 8lb10oz, 21.5 in.
Awesome prophetic fortune cookie: Love is a present that can be given every single day you live
As for me I have always been pretty flexible with my kids I listen to their ques to avoid melt downs. but I have also conditioned my children to sleep well anywhere and I plan for nights out. So ... For instance if I was at family party I would have brought my pack and play and laid baby down at "bedtime" in a room and stayed till the party was over . I have a 4 year old and pulling her away early from her cousins would crush her. So I have learned to adapt.
Age: 35 TTC since 2005, MFI & DOR
IVF #1 Sep '11 - canceled poor response
IVF #2 Nov '11 8R/8M/4F 3dt x2 - chemical
IVF #3 April '12 11R/6M/4F 3dt x2 - m/c
FET #1 Aug 2012 3dt x2 - BFN
**new RE**
IVF #4 Jan '13 BFN 11R/6M/6F 5dt x2 - BFN
IVF #5 July '13 16R/10M/10F 5dt x2 + 1 frostie
9dp5dt Beta 1 = 344!! 16dp5dt. Beta 2 = 4822 7wk u/s= 2 heartbeats!
Twin girls! 3/6/14
My kid is a crap sleeper and sticking religiously to or deviating from his routine doesn't change much, so there's that.
Started dating February 6, 2012