July 2015 Moms

orgasm pain ? orgasms in my sleep. Anyone experiencing anything like this ?

Wondering if any ladies are experiencing pain during their orgasms. I am weird I don't have orgasms during sex. I wish I did but i have them in my sleep. It usually just takes a sexual dream or even if i feel like im about to wake up to use the bathroom. It sends me right into an orgasm. The thing is I must have been having more than i realized i was having b.c now istead of experiencing the whole sensation. The sensation starts then all the sudden goes into cramping like my uterus muscles are cramping up. This is happening alot. I would have never known how frequent they were if it wasn't for the pain waking me up. I then have to go to the bathroom and relax my muscles. It takes a long to to be able to pee afterwards. I looked it up online and was amazed to see i wasn't the only one it happens to. But I never met anyone who went thru this before.

Re: orgasm pain ? orgasms in my sleep. Anyone experiencing anything like this ?

  • I've never experienced anything like this. What does your doctor say about it?
  • I actually did experience that early on, maybe around week 7ish.  I woke up to orgasm and was cramping at the same time.  Hasn't happened since then though. 
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  • I haven't told my doctor. I just figured that there isn't much they could do about it.
  • I'm pretty sure I've read that some cramping after orgasm is normal during pregnancy. And having orgasms in your sleep is definitely normal! I'd check with your doctor at your next appointment (you don't have to get too specific with them if you are uncomfortable talking about it) just to be sure, though.
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  • I haven't told my doctor. I just figured that there isn't much they could do about it.

    Haha, that's true! They can do as much about it as a Bump board can, which is calm your fears and let you know it's normal, except they can do so with greater accuracy.
  • Cfabretti2Cfabretti2 member
    edited December 2014
    Andindria said:

    .. I actualy wish I had this problem. I have no sex drive the though of it just disgusts me right now.

    My sex drive is not really high im 10wks and probably have only had sex with DH 3x. And one i spotted and was like that will b the last time for awhile ! Plus iv been too sick to.
    But in my sleep i can't control it.
  • I amnot worried. I think everything will be fine when ir comes to that. I just don't know how many ppl it actually happens too it seams rare.
  • My orgasms have been great at first, then uncomfortable when I start cramping.  It happened with DD too and is normal as far as I know.
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  • Yes, I have cramping for a pretty long while after orgasm. And yes sometimes they happen in my sleep and I wake up crampy.


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  • jlbaker08 said:

    My orgasms have been great at first, then uncomfortable when I start cramping.  It happened with DD too and is normal as far as I know.

    Yes at first when i had sex in the beginning of my pregnancy i didn't know i was pregnant. It felt amazing. I felt like i had a brand new vagina! ! I was going thru it like wow why does this feel extra great And extra sensitive! Lol
  • Happens to me too, I cramp after orgasm. And I google it every single time to make sure it's normal lol. They only last for about 5 minutes afterwards and from everything I've found it's completely normal.
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  • Yeah my cramps last a lot longer than 5 minutes… it can seem like 30-60 minutes sometimes. I don't remember the cramps lasting so long last time.


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  • Cfabretti2Cfabretti2 member
    edited December 2014
    Oh I feel for you. Mine only last a couple mins. But hey there is a lil object in ur uterus it's not used to having there. It's gotta get used to it.

    Reminds me of The Princess and the Pea for some reason lol
  • This is my third pregnancy and I have had orgasms in my sleep with all of them -- they usually wake me up mid-orgasm so I finish while conscious. It is my absolute favorite side effect of being pregnant. Uterine cramping after orgasm is normal, however, I don't know that I have any advice as to how to stop them if it's becoming uncomfortable or disruptive.
  • Pre pregnancy I had sleep orgasms. I have a few once and a while now. When I first became pregnant I noticed a change in sensation and it was amazeballs. However, I do cramp afterwards for about 5 mins which I'm not a fan of but I know it's normal. Op, a lot of times I have a hard time reaching orgasm during intercourse as well. I think it's an inhibition thing. Since becoming pregnant I feel a bit more at ease to fully let myself go. Do you give yourself a helping hand?
  • I had a sleep orgasm too and cramped after! Actually everytime I orgasm while preggers I cramp. It's normal :) (and fun)
  • Andindria said:

    .. I actualy wish I had this problem. I have no sex drive the though of it just disgusts me right now.


    I so agee!! But it doesn't disgust me I actually wish I did then just maybe I wouldn't be so angry and my DH would be so much happier! I feel so sorry for him, I wish there was something I could do!
  • Cfabretti2Cfabretti2 member
    edited December 2014
    Im sorry i went bk and edited that my sex drive wasn't really high.
    Nice to know so many women have this. I thought i was some sort of freak.
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