Help- I think I forced my milk out! (TMI/Embarrassing personal info warning)

mrsalvidrez

You have been warned. Before you read this know that I am embarrassed writing it, but I do need the feedback of internet strangers to know if this is "normal". I can't spare you the details since they are important to the story so here it goes: last night DH and I were "getting it on" (yes that's code for sex). Idk why but I've always been one to get turned on trough nipple stimulation. So anyways that's going on and getting pretty rough, and suddenly DH pauses and says, "you're lactating", as in some milk came out! I was mortified in this moment. Don't get me wrong I feel completely comfortable with my husband, but for some reason I was embarrassed! It totally threw me off but I was able to maintain focus long enough to finish the deed. DH stepped out to the bathroom right after and my emotions took over and I started crying! I tried to wipe all tears away before he came back, but he's no dummy and knew i had been crying. He asks what's wrong and I just explain I was embarrassed. He handled it super awesome and just told me he's my husband and he's not weirded out at all he thinks it's amazing my body is changing to do amazing things and a lot of other perfect stuff. Anyways, my question from this huge ordeal is, is this normal or was my milk actually forced out because of rough action (there was squeezing going on)? And if so, is that ok? Is everything going to be normal? Will I start leaking frequently? Any feedback for my awkward situation would be awesome. Thanks in advance.

littlewest1

Totally normal.  It happens earlier for some than others.  I never had anything come out until after DD was born but some women experience it much sooner.  You're going to be ok, you aren't ruined. 

mrsalvidrez

@galnoir‌ that article was super helpful, thank you!

And thanks everyone else for the feedback and making me feel normal. It's good to know this will most likely happen again so I can be prepared.

SeekingSmall

Totally normal. Colostrum is coming in. Just wait until after you give birth. If you breastfeed you'll find that with no pinching required, sex can turn into nearly a game of slip n slide. :-)

ally3242

Definitely normal, nothing to freak out about. Perhaps a little less nipple stimulation during sexy time, so this doesn't happen again.

Also, this could be a good way to stir up some contractions down the road if you go past your due date. Nipple stimulation is great for contractions.

starshollow

Normal, as others have said. But just an FYI, be careful with very heavy nipple simulation as you get further into third tri. It is one of the things that can bring on contractions.

dana1047

Kudos to your hubby for taking it in stride. My DH has also been more handsy with the boobs. I think they're infatuated the "new" boobs.

miracle4x

Be prepared to wear a bra during the deed after you give birth! With pads too, I might add.

mrsalvidrez

I appreciate everyone's comments. I even had DH scroll through them just so he could hear it is normal and prepare for the future. He said he has no complaints about it, lol. Glad we can go about it much more smoothly next time.

hillbillywife

He milked you!

All silliness aside. Try not to be too freaked out. It's cool that your body is preparing already to breast feed your LO! I didn't have any lactation going on till after DS was born.

DH has told me numerous time that he can't wait for me to leak on him again. He's so weird. I'd rather control the leakage on someone (ahem baby) who is actually going to use it lol.

lexyraejay

I can definitely see nipple stimulation causing contractions, but according to what my doctor told me, it shouldn't send you into labor unless your body is already starting it anyway.

catlover790

Just wanted to say I would've reacted the same way! Try not to worry about it! :-)

SeekingSmall

lexyraejay said:

I can definitely see nipple stimulation causing contractions, but according to what my doctor told me, it shouldn't send you into labor unless your body is already starting it anyway.

This is correct. Almost nothing will work to send you into labor if your body isn't preparing for it. Contractions aren't a bad thing (think of them like Braxton Hicks, they're just practice).

OliveMom3

Just wait until you have real milk let down. I could practically hit dh in the eye from across the room!

itshumpday

My boobs are new to this so I have no advice...but major props to your husband for the awesome support.  Mine would have laughed.

Mushibamboo

OliveMom3 said:

Just wait until you have real milk let down. I could practically hit dh in the eye from across the room!

I was going to say the same thing. Also there is nothing gross about breastmilk. It isn't embarassing, it's appropriate. No worries.

KenyaSwallow

That embarrasses you? What a damn prude.

twinklepits

KenyaSwallow said:

That embarrasses you? What a damn prude.

Um... who the fuck are you?

KenyaSwallow

What's up BV?

KenyaSwallow

How's the vag

twinklepits

KonaiNeto said:

KenyaSwallow said:

That embarrasses you? What a damn prude.

@snegde, @SharkFarts: Guys, KD is back.


AH, well this answers my question. Good call @KonaiNeto‌

@KenyaSwallow‌ Eat a bag of dicks. Get bent. Go piss up a rope. I don't care what you want to call it, but to keep it simple, FUCK OFF.

twinklepits

KenyaSwallow said:

How's the vag

Is your life seriously that pathetic that you feel the need to attempt to upset a group of pregnant women? I mean, come on... how sad is that!? You must be SUPER popular in real life.

KenyaSwallow

Ugh you shouldn't try feeding the troll. You suck at it.

twinklepits

I am being sincere when I ask you... what pleasure do you get from this? I don't understand what would draw someone to intentionally act like a total raging asshole for no reason to a complete group of strangers. Please, enlighten me.

jessc0616

This happened to me a around thanksgiving and I cried from embarrassment too. But now the boob that leaked that night leaks a little everyday, get some breast pads- so worth it!

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KenyaSwallow

You can't handle the mind of the KD. Go take a shit.

marigold32

mrsalvidrez

Woah I've been at work and missed all the craziness. I had no clue who KD even was but obviously he/she/whoever it is is a serious creep.

crazychickenlady

angi3o said:

Woah I've been at work and missed all the craziness. I had no clue who KD even was but obviously he/she/whoever it is is a serious creep.

It's our pet troll!

At this point, I think it takes longer for it to make a new account than it does for the account to be banned, with how obvious its trolling is

mrsalvidrez

@angi3o‌ is it really a guy?

n0soup4u

mrsalvidrez said:

@angi3o‌ is it really a guy?

Maybe it's a shim.... A she him.

70point3

@mrsalvidrez‌ - high five to your hubs. I think/hope mine would react similar. But secretly I kinda want to catch him off guard, maybe even get a mouth full, with his new increased love of my giant boobies.... So he can experience some of the fun body changes right along with me! haha

newmom1989

Hahahaha. Im sorry idk if it's normal, but I still think this post is rather humerus hope you had fun☺️☺️☺️

marigold32

newmom1989 said:

Hahahaha. Im sorry idk if it's normal, but I still think this post is rather humerus hope you had fun☺️☺️☺️

y'all are making this too easy tonight

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