Hey ladies. Just working through some difficult stuff right now and wanted to share. June 22, 2013 my father was killed on his motorcycle by a fuel truck driven by a man not licensed to do so, and who violated a few laws and is now being charged with vehicular homicide. The company he was working for is also being sued for negligence because they knew his situation and gave him the keys and turned their heads even though they knew he wasn't allowed to drive a commercial vehicle (man had 2 previous DUI's and could not drive any vehicle without a Breathalyzer interlock device.
The holidays are hard enough, my family is very close and my dad was like the sun in our universe. It has been hard for the last year and a half, but the hole is always deeper and more profound at special times of the year. Especially being pregnant and knowing he won't be there to enjoy his newest grandson this coming spring/summer.
Tomorrow I have to go sit in front of a panel of lawyers to be deposed, trying to find some shred of information that they can use against my father and lessen fault of the driver and company. I've watched my mom go through her deposition already, so I know what to expect, and I'm so anxious about this process. It is so painful to keep digging into these wounds. Hormonal and full of grief, I am worried I will snap at these people and give them a piece of my mind, which our lawyer has warned we must be polite and professional at all times. To be honest, I am sick to my stomach over this, the added pain of missing him so desperately over the holidays, I just want to crawl into a hole and hide.
In other news, I failed my one hour glucose test today and have to go back for the three hour test. This has just not been my day. I'm a hot mess. Thanks loves for letting me vent, this forum is helping to keep me sane. and all the Dec siggys are helping a smile to shine through tears today.
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As PPs have mentioned, remember to breathe during your deposition and do exactly as your lawyer has advised. Depositions are admissible evidence in court and ANY deviation between in court testimony and what was said in a deposition can be used to cast doubt on the witness's truthfulness. I don't mean to scare you and hopefully your lawyer has already made this point clear but it is a crucial one that warrants repeating. Take your time (in fact - make sure you take a deep breath before answering - it will help you control your emotions AND give your attorney time to interject if there is anything objectionable about the question), answer honestly but BRIEFLY and do not offer any information that wasn't asked - make opposing counsel do the work. If you need to take a break to collect yourself, say so. You will do FINE. Remember not to demonize opposing counsel - directing your anger about the situation will only make you more likely to say something you shouldn't and at the end of the day, they are just trying to do what is best for their client - even if they personally feel shitty about it and sympathize with your family.
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I can't imagine what you have to go through. With your June due date it seems your dad will be with you and with your little one...so look down at your bump and let that give you strength...(ok, so I don't know you but I have tears running down my cheeks in support)
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