We are planning to tell our kids (3 & 5) on Christmas eve. If all goes well with my appt. on the 19th then we will go ahead and tell them. I ordered big sis and big bro shirts. I figured we would wrap them up with a picture of the ultrasound and let them open them before we head out to celebrate with DH family. The kids can share the news then. Christmas would be too hard to keep a secret. I would be outed by not drinking. I would rather tell than be outed.