So because of life experience I basically get second opinions about everything and tonight I got one for my lost filling saga. The bad news: both dentists agree I have to probably have an X-ray done and then a have a small cavity cleaned out.

Confusing news: Dentist 2 wants to check it every month and buy me as much time as possible so I'm farther along. Dentist 1 was more inclined toward 2nd tri due to weight.
My OB's concern was that it doesn't get inflamed. He wants me to "take care of it" but I don't remember him giving me a time frame- just to not let it get inflamed. Soooo.... What now?! Dentist 2 is calling OB on Monday and if he can get through the nurse gatekeepers he's a tougher person than I am. I hope he does though; I'd like to hear more info.
The biggest (new concern) I have is my breathing. I felt like it was harder to breathe in the chair and I'm not sure if it was anxiety or my position, but it genuinely felt heavier. I told the dentist and he talked like it's not a big deal because I wouldn't be down long.
What can people tell me about second tri vs third tri?
Re: Dental drama part 2 and a question