T&P's needed

cssme13

I went to the doctor yesterday morning. He did a pregnancy test there and did an ultrasound. The ultrasound showed no signs of pregnancy only a cyst on each of my ovaries. He decided he wanted a licensed radiologist to take a look today so he scheduled me an ultrasound for ten this morning. The ultrasound tech seemed very concerned but wouldn't tell me anything, I knew she was not allowed to though so impatiently waited to see my Dr at one. Well after sitting in the waiting room for two hours the nurse comes out and says dr is stuck in surgery so I'd have to reschedule. My next appointment isn't until Wednesday and I am freaking out. I know that most of the time no news is good news but I wish they'd just confirm whether or not I'm actually pregnant! No one would tell me anything. I'm trying not to go crazy but it's been a hard day.

I'm probably just overreacting but after my loss in July it's hard to not immediately go to worst case scenario.

RivieraBound

I understand how you feel.  I am surprised he did an ultrasound so early though!  Hopefully its just too early to see anything.

bosco213

Sorry you are stuck in limbo! Hopefully there is nothing to worry about and your appointment on Wednesday will confirm that!

forevergraceful

I agree that it is too early to see anything on an ultrasound. I am so sorry that you are waiting it out. FX all is well.

hullabalou

Sorry you're in limbo, but I do agree that everyone above is correct....4 weeks is very early to have an ultrasound! Hopefully in a couple of weeks you see your baby on the screen.

DB425

Sorry you are dealing with this.  FX for you!

kcasparius

So sorry you are going through this. Saying prayers for you...

cssme13

Thank you ladies. I think the thing that has upset me the most is I know I need my rhogam shot because of my last miscarriage (he was the same doctor who I had during that and said I needed to come in as soon as I get a positive test so I could get my shot) but he wouldn't give it to me because they can't confirm the pregnancy via ultrasound.

craftykix

fx for you

cssme13

CALEO said:

@cssme13‌ sorry if I missed this, have you had a positive antibody screen? I'm A- and because of my prior mc the doc is having my antibody tested on sat to see if I've been sensitized by exposure to RH + blood. However she said it was very unlikely. She made it sound like I only needed the Rhogam shot if I had bleeding or another miscarriage.

They haven't done the screen.

I got the shot two times with DS because I had spotting and then again when I delivered. DH is RH+ so anytime I have bleeding of any sort I get a shot. 

When I had my miscarriage in July no blood work whatsoever was done (not even to get my levels) so I have no idea if I actually need the shot. After my miscarriage I mentioned it to my doctor and he acted like he had no idea that I was Rh negative even though I told every single nurse and the midwife that I had talked to and apparently it was too late for him to give it to me (it was about 2 weeks after my MC). He told me I needed to get my shot immediately the next time I got pregnant because I did not get it after my miscarriage which is why I am a little annoyed now. 

But so far I have turned all my tests positive so I'm just hoping that everything is fine and I am just freaking myself out. 

Sorry I hope that all made sense!