TLD

CandEChicago

TLD's post has been removed... so I am starting this one for D14.

Earlier this morning she announced that she was stepping down and likely stepping back from a bit.  Since her post has been removed... her account has probably been deleted.

TLD - Wish you the best throughout the rest of your pregnancy.  You will be missed by D14. 

QueenOfSpades622

Doubt she's lurking appears so completely deleted her profile. At least in mod spot it says deleted user not just a blank no mod. I could be wrong on this I haven't stalked her profile to see.

QueenOfSpades622

MissChristineMarie said:

QueenOfSpades622 said:

Doubt she's lurking appears so completely deleted her profile. At least in mod spot it says deleted user not just a blank no mod. I could be wrong on this I haven't stalked her profile to see.

She can lurk without even being a member.

Good point didn't think about that

sysakbaby

sysakbaby

Hufflepuff42 said:

No profile anymore... Her thread has been burned out of the pattern.

Balefire is a real bitch.

cwbh928

Between the trolls as of late, the baby center crap and that catfish shit show, amongst other things, it is no surprise that the bump has turned into a somewhat of a clusterfuck!    So many great people are deciding to leave and I can't say I blame them, including TLD.  Its such a shame and defintiely sad! 

I am just surprised the website even opens when click on it. 

Edited: changed my attitude a bit...

hellopartyof5

I thought she was just stepping down as Mod since she said she had to think about whether or not she was going to continue to just be a regular bumpie.  If I had known she was just going to be gone I would have said something more meaningful or something! 

AnonnAni

This happened a few years ago with the merging of the sister sites and MANY of the members (including myself) went to another board we created as a refuge... The Bump has its ups and downs. 

CandEChicago

cwbh928 said:

Between the nonsense by the almighty Bump gods, the trolls as of late, the baby center crap and that catfish shit show, amongst other things, it is no surprise that the bump has turned into a somewhat of a clusterfuck!    So many great people are deciding to leave and I can't say I blame them, including TLD.  Its such a shame and defintiely sad! 

I am just surprised the website even opens when click on it. 

@cwbh928 - Please let's not anger the bump gods until we have a new moderator. 

cwbh928

CandEChicago said:

cwbh928 said:

Between the nonsense by the almighty Bump gods, the trolls as of late, the baby center crap and that catfish shit show, amongst other things, it is no surprise that the bump has turned into a somewhat of a clusterfuck!    So many great people are deciding to leave and I can't say I blame them, including TLD.  Its such a shame and defintiely sad! 

I am just surprised the website even opens when click on it. 

@cwbh928 - Please let's not anger the bump gods until we have a new moderator. 

Yes - you are right! Sorry about that!

LeviJeans

Oh shoot. We get a new mod... Yaaaay... I'm assuming we might not get a say in it this time?

Good luck TLD!

rshamos

Good luck TLD! I hope you can somehow let us know about the rest of your pregnancy. I wish you health and happiness. You will be missed! =((

ebilbao

Good luck TLD and thank you!

This is harsh.

perfectlove09

So was this her choice or the bumps? She can still be a member right!?

I wish she would have joined...the avenue that shall not be mentioned for fear of my account being deleted.

gimmeyronionrings

If you're lurking TLD: All the best to you and your LO! Here's hoping the rest of your pregnancy goes well and you have a smooth delivery.

MaineMama

I slack off and act like a mother all day and when I log back in I find this?! Booooo! If you're lurking TLD, we will missssssss you!

Sweetsix06

I'm not surprised she left. Who needs more drama added to being pregnant? Everything is not butterflies or rainbows, but the bump shouldn't stress you out either. We're all choosing to be here and choosing to post. When it gets nutty, I don't blame those who choose to opt out. I wish her a safe and healthy pregnancy!

desertsun

Best wishes, TLD. Thanks for being a great mod. We'll miss you!

ColeyCannoli

Guh, nothing feels the same here anymore. We'll miss you TLD! Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy!

Heidig14

I have been really busy at work the past couple weeks, and not around much. I feel like I've missed alot! Good luck TLD, you will be missed for sure!

brittandjp

TLD, I'm sorry this shit show caused you to step down and leave TB. If you're lurking, please PM me! I know you weren't for the fb group before, but we'd love, love, love to have you.

And if you're still declining, then know we're all here for you and wish you the best the next couple months!! Annnnd if you change your mind in a couple months, still PM me.

CandEChicago

brittandjp said:

TLD, I'm sorry this shit show caused you to step down and leave TB. If you're lurking, please PM me! I know you weren't for the fb group before, but we'd love, love, love to have you.

And if you're still declining, then know we're all here for you and wish you the best the next couple months!! Annnnd if you change your mind in a couple months, still PM me.

@brittandjp -  She had her account deleted.  So she won't be able to PM you. 

brittandjp

CandEChicago said:

brittandjp said:

TLD, I'm sorry this shit show caused you to step down and leave TB. If you're lurking, please PM me! I know you weren't for the fb group before, but we'd love, love, love to have you.

And if you're still declining, then know we're all here for you and wish you the best the next couple months!! Annnnd if you change your mind in a couple months, still PM me.

@brittandjp -  She had her account deleted.  So she won't be able to PM you. 

DUH. Can I blame baby brain? :-?

Do we know if she is still in touch with anyone outside TB?

CandEChicago

brittandjp said:

CandEChicago said:

brittandjp said:

TLD, I'm sorry this shit show caused you to step down and leave TB. If you're lurking, please PM me! I know you weren't for the fb group before, but we'd love, love, love to have you.

And if you're still declining, then know we're all here for you and wish you the best the next couple months!! Annnnd if you change your mind in a couple months, still PM me.

@brittandjp -  She had her account deleted.  So she won't be able to PM you. 

DUH. Can I blame baby brain? :-?

Do we know if she is still in touch with anyone outside TB?

We can blame baby brain.   Not sure if she is in touch with anyone via other forms of communication from the TB.  But I have a feeling that TLD is resourceful that she knows how to reach out to people when she is ready.  

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JRod13

Aww man. A happy and healthy rest of pregnancy to you TLD.

brittandjp

Slaps said:

TLD, I'm sorry this shit show caused you to step down and leave TB. If you're lurking, please PM me! I know you weren't for the fb group before, but we'd love, love, love to have you.

And if you're still declining, then know we're all here for you and wish you the best the next couple months!! Annnnd if you change your mind in a couple months, still PM me.

I doubt she would join fb group after the slip up post of everyone's info today!

The only things viewable in that document were bump screen names and emails, though they have since been deleted. However, if your privacy is on lockdown then you are not searchable on facebook with your email address anyway. Yes, some use their first and/or last names for their email address. IF that's the case, the likelihood of someone determining your blood type, credit card numbers, and the quality of your future child's skin is not likely. I know it's not ideal, but we believe it was an honest mistake and we're working through figuring out how something like that could happen in the first place.

nashamber

Missed this "shit show" everyone is referring to due to busy season at work. Not sure that I even want to know what went down, but in any case we'll miss you TLD! Hope your pregnancy is free from all the stress and BS that can be caused thanks to TB.

allitor12

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BankerBSN

I miss TLD already. If you a watching from beyond- I you!

weezy29

I think it was an explanation more than an attitude. Anyway, email addresses are everywhere. The random chic at the check out lane is usually able to access that along with much, much more. Was it ideal? Certainly not but overall, I don't think it was a huge deal in the grand scheme of themes.

feeshah

Damn...I had just figured out what TLD meant not too long ago too
Best wishes TLD! I have always enjoyed your comments and inputs.

aandkmom22

Can't believe TLD is being replaced so quickly, everyone already Looves BM (reason TLD left us) and people believe their email addresses linked to SN for everyone to see is safe given recent events. Sorry, TLD if you are lurking out there somewhere we do miss you.

CandEChicago

Queeniemom22 said:

Can't believe TLD is being replaced so quickly, everyone already Looves BM (reason TLD left us) and people believe their email addresses linked to SN for everyone to see is safe given recent events. Sorry, TLD if you are lurking out there somewhere we do miss you.

I think D14 is most comfortable having a mod that comes from D14 since they are familiar with the culture. Given the trolling history many are uncomfortable being mod-less. The determination for a new mod is no reflection on TLD or how much we appreciate what she has done for us over the past several months.

JunkieBrewster

People in the fb group were initially upset, rightfully so. They are all being very understanding thankfully. We did lose someone before we found out how the info got out, but the general consensus seems to remain that is a very different group there and a very different atmosphere.
People are concerned about their privacy with their emails (and in since cases, full names) being posted but it's so peaceful there that they are willing to overlook it.
It won't happen again, because measures have been taken so hopefully nothing malicious will come from the emails being given out.

abcmom12

Wishing you a safe and uneventful remainder of pregnancy and delivery TLD!!

RaeChay

TLD come back...