*hugs to everyone that needs one* I'm down in the dumps about starting another cycle too. So I'd rather have been able to avoid the BFP from a rando but there was no disclaimer in the title. Thanks a bunch, rando.
FWIW, my thought was more along the lines of be nice to people because you never know when you will come across them again, and pregnancy is a very scary experience and isn't smooth for some even when they end up with a healthy child. I'm struggling as a sister to a PPROM situation so I am a little touchy about overly happy people.
I would never actually wish a loss on any person, even the worst people on the earth. That's horrible, and I truly am sorry that I upset people. I'll watch my snark, I don't always come across the best so I do apologize and will do better.
I also won't edit my comment because I've been quoted and that would be cowardly (lurking does a newb good).
That's Kristine with a K...because I'm special. Married 7/7/2007 Fur kid Sassafrass TTC 5/2014 Cycle 1 - 80 days ended with progesterone, mini period, then full 13 days later 7/2014 Blood work: No E of P, but high FSH (POF due to Celiac?) 9/2014 - DH SA normal, Me: CD 21 blood work: no progesterone, FSH still elevated
If ED/EOD sex isn't persistent then I'm screwed.
*hugs to everyone that needs one* I'm down in the dumps about starting another cycle too. So I'd rather have been able to avoid the BFP from a rando but there was no disclaimer in the title. Thanks a bunch, rando.
We've asked for the edit, but it doesn't look like she has even been back to see the replies to her drive by.
Married 06/08 started TTC 08/08
BFP 9/08 Natural m/c (8w3d)
BFP 06/09 Natural m.c (5w3d)
BFP 9/09 -- Dec. 29th: Juliet Rose born at 20 wks. Love you forever.
TTC Break 1/10-8/14.
Results of physical testing = Normal
Genetic testing = Balanced translocation
IVF #1 with PGD Nov 2014 = BFN
IVF #2 with PGD Start stimming 1/6, ER scheduled 1/16, ET scheduled 1/21
FWIW, my thought was more along the lines of be nice to people because you never know when you will come across them again, and pregnancy is a very scary experience and isn't smooth for some even when they end up with a healthy child. I'm struggling as a sister to a PPROM situation so I am a little touchy about overly happy people.
I would never actually wish a loss on any person, even the worst people on the earth. That's horrible, and I truly am sorry that I upset people. I'll watch my snark, I don't always come across the best so I do apologize and will do better.
I also won't edit my comment because I've been quoted and that would be cowardly (lurking does a newb good).
I PPROMED that doesn't give me the right to be an asshole.
FWIW, my thought was more along the lines of be nice to people because you never know when you will come across them again, and pregnancy is a very scary experience and isn't smooth for some even when they end up with a healthy child. I'm struggling as a sister to a PPROM situation so I am a little touchy about overly happy people.
I would never actually wish a loss on any person, even the worst people on the earth. That's horrible, and I truly am sorry that I upset people. I'll watch my snark, I don't always come across the best so I do apologize and will do better.
I also won't edit my comment because I've been quoted and that would be cowardly (lurking does a newb good).
I PPROMED that doesn't give me the right to be an asshole.
*act like an asshole
I always enjoy your posts @PinkCamino . Rumblin's around TB is that TOU is getting enforced a lot more strictly, so take care friend.
Maybe I'm the minority here but I didn't see @StikierIten comment to wish her to miscarry.
I think I read it more like, "hey!, some of us post in other forums as well...you don't want to burn your bridges type of thing..."
Is there something I misread or not seeing that you all are seeing?
I read it the same way the others did.
I think today is a really bad day for anyone to be fucking around. Words need to be chosen carefully - always - but especially today
FWIW, my thought was more along the lines of be nice to people because you never know when you will come across them again, and pregnancy is a very scary experience and isn't smooth for some even when they end up with a healthy child. I'm struggling as a sister to a PPROM situation so I am a little touchy about overly happy people.
I would never actually wish a loss on any person, even the worst people on the earth. That's horrible, and I truly am sorry that I upset people. I'll watch my snark, I don't always come across the best so I do apologize and will do better.
I also won't edit my comment because I've been quoted and that would be cowardly (lurking does a newb good).
I PPROMED that doesn't give me the right to be an asshole.
I believe her. It was a bad choice of words for sure, but I don't think someone who would be upset by an insensitive drive - by would also be a person who would wish that upon someone. Especially not today.
Wow thank you everyone for all your kind and warm wishes! I am so happy you all took time out of your day to give to me your compassionate responses, and time out of your day to use some of your emotions on me!
I forgot that the internet is a dark hateful place where women forget that real people sit on the other end.
It was my mistake for burdening strangers with my happiness.
Genuinely this post originally was not created with an intent of malice, I do feel for women that struggle to conceive. All in all though ladies, please keep in mind there is no need to let your jealousy contaminate your heart. Thanks all you bitter witches have a fantastic day!
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
I've been thinking a lot about the word "bitter" since the conversation the other day. I believe that it originates from a place of supposed superiority. People who use it seem to think that they are better than the other posters, almost as if to say, "You're just bitter that TTC was easy for me" or "You're just bitter because I'm a better person."
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
Wow thank you everyone for all your kind and warm wishes! I am so happy you all took time out of your day to give to me your compassionate responses, and time out of your day to use some of your emotions on me!
I forgot that the internet is a dark hateful place where women forget that real people sit on the other end.
It was my mistake for burdening strangers with my happiness.
Genuinely this post originally was not created with an intent of malice, I do feel for women that struggle to conceive. All in all though ladies, please keep in mind there is no need to let your jealousy contaminate your heart. Thanks all you bitter witches have a fantastic day!
So when you're happy, do you normally find the nearest group of strangers and share your news?
Do you often run up to the homeless and wave your dinner in their face? They should just be happy YOU have food, regardless of their circumstances, am I right?
GDI, I had a very LONG ass day at work. I don't need your drive-by BFP bullshit! Let's add to that the fact that today is infancy and pregnancy loss awareness day. I have tried to not think about it, but now I just want to cry. So, thank you, OP for ACTING really douchey and posting this. You can GTFO right now!
Wow thank you everyone for all your kind and warm wishes! I am so happy you all took time out of your day to give to me your compassionate responses, and time out of your day to use some of your emotions on me!
I forgot that the internet is a dark hateful place where women forget that real people sit on the other end.
It was my mistake for burdening strangers with my happiness.
Genuinely this post originally was not created with an intent of malice, I do feel for women that struggle to conceive. All in all though ladies, please keep in mind there is no need to let your jealousy contaminate your heart. Thanks all you bitter witches have a fantastic day!
This right here makes me extremely ragey! I must remember TOU!
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
Wow thank you everyone for all your kind and warm wishes! I am so happy you all took time out of your day to give to me your compassionate responses, and time out of your day to use some of your emotions on me!
I forgot that the internet is a dark hateful place where women forget that real people sit on the other end.
It was my mistake for burdening strangers with my happiness.
Genuinely this post originally was not created with an intent of malice, I do feel for women that struggle to conceive. All in all though ladies, please keep in mind there is no need to let your jealousy contaminate your heart. Thanks all you bitter witches have a fantastic day!
So when you're happy, do you normally find the nearest group of strangers and share your news?
Do you often run up to the homeless and wave your dinner in their face? They should just be happy YOU have food, regardless of their circumstances, am I right?
The only one acting like a "witch" here is you.
This. All of this.
This board is called "Trying to Get Pregnant." The Bump seriously needs to create a "Let Me Wave My Pee Stick at Strangers" or "Announce My Pregnancy to Somebody, Anybody" board. FFS!
Oh my god that is the greatest idea in all time. BumpNotJackie should totally get on that shit.
Married 9/2007
TTC #1 since 1/2014
Me: 30 DH: 31
Sep14: 7DPO testing for short LP - low progesterone (4.9ng/mL)
Re: Goodbye ttc board :)
How exactly did you mean for that comment to come across?
I'm glad that's what you meant.
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*hugs to everyone that needs one* I'm down in the dumps about starting another cycle too. So I'd rather have been able to avoid the BFP from a rando but there was no disclaimer in the title. Thanks a bunch, rando.
I would never actually wish a loss on any person, even the worst people on the earth. That's horrible, and I truly am sorry that I upset people. I'll watch my snark, I don't always come across the best so I do apologize and will do better.
I also won't edit my comment because I've been quoted and that would be cowardly (lurking does a newb good).
Married 7/7/2007
Fur kid Sassafrass
TTC 5/2014
Cycle 1 - 80 days ended with progesterone, mini period, then full 13 days later
7/2014 Blood work: No E of P, but high FSH (POF due to Celiac?)
9/2014 - DH SA normal, Me: CD 21 blood work: no progesterone, FSH still elevated
HUGS to the ladies who need them today.
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I always enjoy your posts @PinkCamino . Rumblin's around TB is that TOU is getting enforced a lot more strictly, so take care friend.
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
I think today is a really bad day for anyone to be fucking around. Words need to be chosen carefully - always - but especially today
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3 failed IUI cycles
Oct '15 - IVF 1 - 10R, 3M, 0F
Sept '16 - IVF - 12R, 11M, 5F and 3 perfect day 5 blasts - MMC 7w5d
Jan '17 - FET 1 - BFP, EDD 10/14
Just throw it on repeat and call it a day.
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"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
Do you often run up to the homeless and wave your dinner in their face? They should just be happy YOU have food, regardless of their circumstances, am I right?
The only one acting like a "witch" here is you.
GDI, I had a very LONG ass day at work. I don't need your drive-by BFP bullshit! Let's add to that the fact that today is infancy and pregnancy loss awareness day. I have tried to not think about it, but now I just want to cry. So, thank you, OP for ACTING really douchey and posting this. You can GTFO right now!
ETA Hedgamahogs
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Hugs for ladies having a bad day and were hurt by OP and her WK backup dancers.
Here is some cuteness.
Eta: this one too!