We officially found out last week that we are having a girl, and we are so excited! That being said, I am in sort of a dilemma with DH. The name that dear husband loves for our little one is a masculine name, spelled in a "youneek" way. I don't hate it, but there are so many names that I like so much better. But, he doesn't love any of the names that I love, and really seems to have his heart set on naming our daughter this name. I know what the general consensus is on this board about masculine/youneek names. I also think that it is so sweet that he is so excited and in love with a name for our little one. My question is, is it worth it to continue the fight to find a more feminine, less youneek name, or should I just let it go, and agree to name our daughter the name that dear husband loves?
Re: Advice on Naming Disagreement
My H's fave name was Hensley. It's a surname and hard to pronounce. He also liked Brooklyn. I vetoed both, and now we have Ruby and Catherine nn Kate in our top two.
Keep negotiating and find something you both love.
Precious baby boy "HC" born May 2013.
OK-- I thought this was going to be much, much worse. I was imaginaing Addycyne.
OP-- the sentiment is really sweet, but if you don't love the name and don't think you ever will, maybe gently try to persuade him to use Rylie as a MN? Or spell it Riley? That spelling still has all of the same letters.
GL!
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It makes total sense to me. I considered Hensley because I liked that H picked it out and loved it so much, and at least it was spelled properly. But I love Ruby and Kate so much more, and he loves Kate just as much, if not more, than Hensley.
Also pregnancy brain made me consider some crazy names I think. Haha.
Precious baby boy "HC" born May 2013.
I just read the comments and see the name is Rylie. I don't like it. Could you give her a formal name and use Rylie (any spelling) as a nn? Rhiannon ?
Precious baby boy "HC" born May 2013.
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H and I didn't like each others top names, he thought my favorite sounded "old" (Elena) and I thought his sounded like a stripper name (Alexus). We both made lists together on a dry erase board and hung it up. We added to it as we thought of names and took time to look at them and think it over. We went to the hospital with the two names we both really liked though they weren't either of out top names, and then decided when DD was born.
And he didn't really click with DDs name when he first heard it but it grew on him over time and positive feedback from others helped. Now he brags about it and swears it is the only name in the world that suits her.
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