Hello ladies, a few of you may already know me I am Cythe, an active poster over on TTGP. MH is Navy and we've been actively TTC #1 for 5 months now. He just came home today and told me that his next scheduled deployment is most likely getting moved up from Spring 2016 to Fall 2015. I'm fairly sure we're not pregnant this month (he was underway during most of my FW) so, if we conceive next month we'd be looking at July 2015.
My question is this, for any moms with experience or any of you wonderful ladies who have delivered while your husbands have been deployed, would you choose to continue TTC if you knew your husbands wouldn't have been there for the birth?
I've dug through some of the threads on this board, and have seen quite a few great responses about finding help and how to plan for going in to labor/giving birth alone. I have no family in the area, but I do have some wonderful friends who would help. I'm just curious with the whole process and coming home without YH, if you would chose to do it again.
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TTC #1 since May 2014
3 failed IUI cycles
Oct '15 - IVF 1 - 10R, 3M, 0F
Sept '16 - IVF - 12R, 11M, 5F and 3 perfect day 5 blasts - MMC 7w5d
Jan '17 - FET 1 - BFP, EDD 10/14