Toddler just seems to have tantrums when I am around

kristinyoung111

I am a working mom, my husband stays at home with our daughter during the day. She doesn't really seem to have any tantrums during the day. However, when I get home, within a half hour of me being there, she typically breaks down over something. On days I am off, she also will have tantrums, though it is typically just one. I am not sure what is happening here. I know she is likely tired around the time I get home (I get home about 5:30 to 6:00) but she will be tired at points with my husband and not act this way. I am very attentive when I am with her and I get down and play with her, snuggle, etc.  I don't give in to tantrums, so she should know that they don't work for getting things. If she is having a tantrum over wanting something (which is usually what it is), I tell her no, then ignore the tantrum or try to redirect her attention to something else. Any ideas why she is doing this with me only?