I've only gained 3.5 pounds and i'm about to hit week 12, but I feel so fat. I have plenty of clothes that are too tight already. Everyone keeps asking "are you showing yet?", then they look awkwardly at my stomach. I tell them I think that it's a food bump, not a baby bump yet. I don't know how to tell???? Should my stomach be hard already? I'm definitlely feeling more fat and puffy than pregnant.