T & P please (loss mentioned). Update

beccaxbooxbear

Got a message from my SIL today that her sister's baby died yesterday. She was due sometime this month. I'm not sure yet what happened but I know she's still at the hospital and that it was completely unexpected. The pregnancy had been going well and on track. The family is hurting a lot. Let's keep them in our thoughts and prayers! ..................................................................... .....................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................So I talked further with my SIL. Her sister was due two days from today. On Monday the baby was fine and kicking. Tuesday morning she went to her appointment and she was informed that the baby died overnight. She was admitted to he hospital and delivered her baby boy. He had the cord wrapped around his neck. They named him Caleb. It hasn't fully sunk in yet for her sister or her husband. The family is trying to stay strong for her. She is staying with her parents for the time being especially since her home has everything set up for her baby. If anyone has any words of advice or anything to help us help her in any way it would be greatly appreciated. We are at a total loss as to what to do or say. Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers

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I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking about their family.

mbafall09

So sorry to hear this. Ts and Ps sent their way.

Kim22

How sad. I will think of them.

cagoldi

Sorry for the loss, Becca. Thoughts and prayers for your family.

mskatiep

I'm so sorry, they will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Deliadorel

Heartbreaking! So sorry;(
Toughts and prayers for the family!!!!

TJHine

This is so sad, thoughts are with your family.

VegasGal1978

I am so sorry! Sending t&p their way.

mwhipple77

Thoughts and prayers to the family. So sad.

justMaike

Oh my goodness..T&Ps to her and the family. That's tragic

beccaxbooxbear

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers and the advice!

88sharonlee

So sad. So sorry to hear.

The only thing I can think to offer to help is that a co-worker of mine lost her baby after 3 weeks old (born then passed away) she said she hates hearing things like 'god has a plan' or 'everything happens for a reason' those things suck! Also she said that even though it's nice to know your not the only one this has happened to, when it happens to you you don't give a f*^# that someone knows someone who went through it too.

I hope that's helpful, wish there was more to offer.

beccaxbooxbear

leopardgurl831 said:

I'm so sorry sending them T&Ps.

Advice.  It is the hardest when everyone stops calling and checking on them a few months from now.  Everyone will be there at the beginning, but they will really need support when the support slows down.

Good to know!! I hadn't thought of that... Thank you

kimmycup

I'm so sorry. Your family is in my prayers.