Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
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1st Miscarriage at 9 1/2 weeks
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I was so excited about my first pregnancy. I had begun bargain shopping and planning out what I wanted for him/her.
Just before the 9 week mark I started light spotting x 3 days. Then it started to increase in flow and cramping. An emergency appointment with the Dr followed by an ultrasound and bloodwork told my nothing but the hope I was getting was the worest part. Everyone kept saying that there is a good chance it will pass and I can still have a health pregnancy.
A day of waiting for the test results equalled having the flow and pain get so bad I woke up DH during the night and had him take me to the hospital.
They had the ultrasound results and the baby only measured 6 weeks and had no heart beat. I knew upon hearing this information that it was all over but the actual passing. The grieving was able to start and the pain over the next 2 days was horrible and the only thing that helped was heating pad or warm bath (where most of the miscarriage was passed).
It felt like a mini labour with dilation and contractions. No pain medication seemed to help in the least.
Im heart broken (but this just happend this week) and am hope to try again but im still bleeding and possibly still waiting to finish passing my baby (To me it was definitely my baby).
Just before the 9 week mark I started light spotting x 3 days. Then it started to increase in flow and cramping. An emergency appointment with the Dr followed by an ultrasound and bloodwork told my nothing but the hope I was getting was the worest part. Everyone kept saying that there is a good chance it will pass and I can still have a health pregnancy.
A day of waiting for the test results equalled having the flow and pain get so bad I woke up DH during the night and had him take me to the hospital.
They had the ultrasound results and the baby only measured 6 weeks and had no heart beat. I knew upon hearing this information that it was all over but the actual passing. The grieving was able to start and the pain over the next 2 days was horrible and the only thing that helped was heating pad or warm bath (where most of the miscarriage was passed).
It felt like a mini labour with dilation and contractions. No pain medication seemed to help in the least.
Im heart broken (but this just happend this week) and am hope to try again but im still bleeding and possibly still waiting to finish passing my baby (To me it was definitely my baby).
HopefulMommyKate
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Re: 1st Miscarriage at 9 1/2 weeks
*************Siggy Warning. Loss mentioned.************
Me: 36, DH:37
Married 4/2010, TTC since 7/2011
Dx: Officially Unexplained (I have Polycystic Ovaries diagnosed via ultrasound, but few classic PCOS symptoms, he has mild MF issues. So... not issue free, but nothing so severe as to explain IF)
I also deal with post-surgical Hypothyroidism following Thyroid Cancer in 2009, but under control with Levothyroxine
4 months Clomid (thinned lining) and 10 months Letrozole (every indication that I responded perfectly)
6 failed IUIs in 2013, 3 with trigger
IVF #1 in March 2014
ER 3/21/14, 31R/21F, 12 frosties!
ET 3/26/14, 1 perfect blast transferred: BFN
FET#1 5/28/14, 2 "beautiful" early blasts transferred. BFP!!
Beta #1 (6/11/14) 798; Beta #2 (6/18/14) 7,966.
1st u/s (6/25/14) showed 2 sacs, 1 empty & 1 with a beautiful little bean doing what it needs to do!
EDD 2/14/15, missed miscarriage, DX: Trisomy 21. D&C 8/1/14
FET#2 Transferred 3 embies, 2 looking pretty good, one not so much. BFN.
IVF#2 January 2015, tentative ER 1/23
I'm sorry for your previous loss and I'm glad things worked out but you may want to go to the PgAL board.
We are not being mean and hopefully you can understand why this is not appropriate.